I need help. Literitly. =(

[lost4eturnity]

So heres the question...If I guy happens to be angry and you say somthing that maybe wasn't something he didn't like is it okay for him to smack your face? I mean even if it wasn't hard enough to hurt?? And is it okay if he doesn't want to hold your hand and you reach to hold it and instead of him jsut saying he didn't want to, he smacks your hand

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[oh_cadaver]

No, babe, it's pretty much NOT alrite. Is this the first time it's happened? I hate to be fuckin' cliche, dude, but you know that shit leads to more shit. Especially if he's acting like nothing happened.
Were these two different occasions and what did you say that he smacked you for?
I won't say anything to anybody about it but if it happens again I might have to sneak in and put a knife through his throat, you know, 'cause what are friends for?

[lost4eturnity]

Well he actully did it becasue he wanted to play with my boob and I moved his hand. And no it's honestly not the first time. And there's been somthing else that was worse but I can't say that one here. I'll have to tell you later, in person or somthing

[oh_cadaver]

I am telling you right now, in all seriousness: do NOT. and I repeat. DO NOT subject yourself to things that scare you or make you uncomfortable because he apologizes, or because you love him. I know that he's your everything right now but I will go to the world and back to protect you and house you if I fucking have to and you KNOW that.
I'm not saying "Break up with him right now." I'm saying that you had better not be letting him take advantage of you just because you don't feel like you have anywhere to go, or you feel like you owe him. You've been in a relationship before where you were too scared to leave-don't let it happen again. Please.