Chapter 5

The Identity Acceptance stage means the person accepts themselves. "I will be okay." The person attaches a positive connotation to their gay or lesbian identity and accepts rather than tolerates it. There is continuing and increased contact with the gay and lesbian culture. The task is to deal with inner tension of no longer subscribing to ( Read more... )

Chapter 4

In the third stage, Identity Tolerance: the person comes to the understanding they are "not the only one". The person acknowledges they are likely gay or lesbian and seeks out other gay and lesbian people to combat feelings of isolation. Increased commitment to being lesbian or gay. The task is to decrease social alienation by seeking out ( Read more... )

Chapter 3

In the third stage, Identity Tolerance: the person comes to the understanding they are "not the only one". The person acknowledges they are likely gay or lesbian and seeks out other gay and lesbian people to combat feelings of isolation. Increased commitment to being lesbian or gay. The task is to decrease social alienation by seeking out ( Read more... )

i'm actually the biggest yunjae fan but i also have a massive crush on jaejoong so... yeah. i cant write any yunjae yet.

but i love yoosu. i believe yoosu is real.


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Chapter 2

The second stage is called Identity Comparison. In this stage, the person accepts the possibility of being gay or lesbian and examines the wider implications of that tentative commitment. "Maybe this does apply to me." The self-alienation becomes isolation. The task is to deal with the social alienation.

It threatens to wreck my life. This ( Read more... )

Chapter 1

In the first stage, Identity Confusion, the person is amazed to think of themselves as a gay person. "Could I be gay?" This stage begins with the person's first awareness of gay or lesbian thoughts, feelings, and attractions. The people typically feel confused and experience turmoil.

The truth was I didn’t want to know. If there was a way ( Read more... )

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prologue

Everything started when Jae-hyung finally started dating Bomi.

They say if you want to find the root of the problem you have to dig deep. I’m digging deep. And I can’t think of anything else that triggered this.

Maybe there is. I mean, how would I know? Maybe you are born gay. I don’t ever remember being attracted to any girl before. ( Read more... )

i'm actually a blogspot user, but for fanfics, livejournal is the best.

that is not to say i will be posting any up. or maybe i will. when i've figured out how to get around in LJ then i might. meanwhile, i shall go read stuff.

toodles

tia