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Feb 21, 2007 22:55

I hate admitting that I like someone. Mainly because the inevitable question is what I'll do next. My answer? Nothing. Because I wholeheartedly believe that men are incapable of finding me attractive. That I'm some sort of weird hybrid that... isn't worthy of that kind of love. It makes finding someone attractive that much more painful. I thought ( Read more... )

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akrodha February 26 2007, 12:28:04 UTC
> Because I wholeheartedly believe that men are incapable of finding me attractive.

I used to believe the same thing about myself as well. But I don't know, one day I just accepted the fact that I'm not a model or anything, and that looks are completely subjective anyway. And after having faced plenty of rejection and even humiliation, I grew partially resistant to my insecurities, accepted my physical and personal flaws, and felt oddly comfortable with myself.

I hope that one day you'll be able to stop believing that men are incapable of finding you attractive. People can't be ranked on a 10-point scale; everyone has wildly differing opinions on what's hot or not. But screw other people. You have to honestly believe that you're a beautiful person inside and out. If not you, then who will?

(At least you know I do.)

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