congratulations on moving on with the present. i think the past is the past and would try to just leave it at that. which is probably hard because you're still living together. i'm sure it must be awkward with you seeing mr present. does he know? do you still get along? people sometimes seem to have a tendency to want what they can't have so he may be yearning for you because he can't have you a bit too. confusing and i'm not sure from here what's up. it is nice to be check out at bars and other places but as you mention it's a bit shallow for the long run. i saw a study once that said as many as 80% of all guys asked at a bar (in a relationship or not) would entertain the idea of going home w/a woman he just met. maybe not bad for rebound physical stuff but nothing to base your life on
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What if Mr. Present had a friend who told me he (Mr. Present) really liked me and I was more than just a one night fling? But what if I still feel in my gut that I'm just "one of those girls" to him? I don't know, he never calls.
go with your heart and intuition. if he feels that way and was open enough to hook up w/you he should be open enough to let you know he wants more. boys are bad/girls are bad. enjoy it for what it was and if it turns in to more that's great. if not you're still awesome and a little lovin is a good thing. especially when you're down. good luck :o)
Yeah well update says he's scum. Sucks because now I want him even more. I should learn from my past: Stay away from the jerks. It's so hard though. I deserve better I know I do.
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not sure why it posted anon.
love,
me
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i hope things get better soon & you have a good weekend...
*hugs*
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