Lj Idol One: Black Rainbow

[lyssa027]

Trigger warning: cancer, needles, death, ivf, pregnancy

Comments

[zvezda]

This is so heartbreaking to read. I hate stories like this.

Are there foundations out there that have full surrogates or egg donors that would be able to help you? I imagine a cancer survivor deserves it more than anyone. I wish there was a solution for you.

[beautyofgrey]

This sounds impossibly hard, when you want something so much, and hit so many obstacles. <3

[chocolate_frapp]

I am so sorry.
How would you feel about adoption?

[selfconflicted]

Adoption is often more expensive than IVF, especially if you want a newborn. I also have to point out that this question is often viewed as insensitive because those struggling with infertility who decide to adopt, have had to also grieve the loss of the dream their had for themselves and biological children. It's better to let the infertility warrior mention it, rather than someone else because it can be very triggering..

[chocolate_frapp]

I'm sorry.

[qwentoozla]

I'm so sorry. What a traumatic experience and loss to go through.

[baxaphobia]

I'm so sorry. I never wanted children but I feel badly for those who do and cannot. Life doesn't seem fair a good deal of the time.