Help me out!

[majin_j]

Ok, so Stacey and I had a fight at the begining of this week, and I still have no freakin' clue why shes upset! Maybe someone can help me out in trying to figure out where I went wrong in this situation so that I can have a better understanding of why she got so pissed! I mean, I got so fed up with it, I hung up on her! I just couldn't take it

Comments

[neene33]

first off, i was under the impression you had already spent money on your costume, remember how i didnt know you were being a vampire bc i thought you'd already gotten the superhero costume? second off, i was upset when you told me, i just didnt know if i should bring it up because you always tell me that im a horrible person when i tell you im upset with you. after discussing my feelings with a few friends, i decided that i needed to bring it up to you and tell you why i was upset because it wasnt good for our friendship to keep my mouth shut. thirdly, let me just make it clear that i did not start out yelling at you. i told you calmly and in a normal voice, because i know that if i sound angry you'll hang up on me to start with, so i spoke to you in a calm voice and you got pissed off and yelled first. the only reason i had to raise my voice was because you wouldnt let me finish my sentences. instead you cut me off with "dont tell me im not allowed to treat myself anymore." the point of me being mad at you is because you won'

Enough!

[tressaland]

I think you both make valid points, but it is obvious that neither of you are going to agree on the situation. I wasn't there and i have my own bias' on you two but i am not going to voice them here. I have no room to get up on a soap box and preach. But i do have some advice, what you two choose to do with it is up to you

[vegan_ashley]

friends do things for each other like buying food for one another when times are tough BECAUSE they are friends...it's because you want to, not because you have to, but you also shouldn't expect something in return. Joe and I bought food and stuff for each other all the time, but we never expected each other to repay the other person whether we had money or not. I used to make 80-110$ a week, and Joe about the same if you divided his every two week pay check by 2...we helped each other when we needed it, but we didn't hold it against the other person if they did something for themselves to make them happy the next time they had a little money

[marvel1027]

Absolutely true in regards to what Ashley said. When we bought each other stuff, it was a gift from one friend to another. If I bought her food, and then she went out and bought herself something it didn't bother me. The food helped the hunger, and by not having to spend her own money, she had money to buy something for herself to make herself happy.

When it comes to hunger and happy, also true. I've gone about two weeks with very little food and starving and have been happy. I've also a lot of food and felt absolutely horrible.

As for the yelling and the argument, just apologize to each other. You both yelled, you should both apologize. When I argue with someone, I apologize whether or not I was wrong, because I'm apologizing for yelling. The only time I don't apologize is when I don't like the person I yelled at.

[vegan_ashley]

hahaha to the last part joe...'the only time i don't apologize is when i don't like the person i yelled at.'---classic joe lmao

[josh19696]

lol could that be in reference to kenny's with clark?

[h0tsweetdreamz]

just appologize 2 each other and make up... u guys both make valid points... and julian u should give her $30... cuz the money seems 2 be her biggest issue...