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Dec 08, 2003 12:41

I have nothing against my coworkers, in fact almost all of them are very nice people, however I kinda feel like making fun of some of them right now, without being rude. Keep in mind that I put myself down on a regular basis, so I'm justified in doing this. The main manager of mine is a quiet person in general, and he has a very frustrated way ( Read more... )

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danse_gothique December 8 2003, 19:34:22 UTC
Maybe if you liked women a little more you'd find relationships came a bit easier for you.

The way you talk about them oozes with hostility. It's a little too much to not comment on, so sorry if I'm too direct. I enjoy talking to all sorts of people, except when they make unkind and sexist comments about people. Kinda offensive.

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malingerer December 9 2003, 11:37:54 UTC
I don't act this way to people, it's only when I write. In general, people never really get to know me, because I don't talk much and the only reason I sound hostile is because I never go out with women. In a way, it disconnects you from age appropriate experiences. You are right though, I should be more open minded.

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danse_gothique December 9 2003, 14:13:37 UTC
It's like dude, I introduce friends to friends a lot, but if I knew a guy in real life who had the kinds of thoughts you express, I wouldn't think him a nice enough person to introduce to any of my girlfriends.

You know the attitudes might just leak out without you realizing it. Women read these things, especially hostility (which yes, is often "silent and passive") and we can spot men who don't like women who are full-figured - even if it's not us in particular.

You talk like you know more than the average amount of psyhology though when you analyze yourself.

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malingerer December 9 2003, 14:37:32 UTC
I never claimed to be a psychologist, but I am at least a little aware of how I am perceived, and why I behave the way I do, (some of the time). Even PHD's can't cure themselves, and yeah I know women can read me, also I have had experiences where it has leaked out. But if your gonna think for a second that the majority of men don't have these thoughts, then your living in a different world. Most men are just good at pretending, and can hide it. As far as full-figured women, I lost my virginity to one, and while a little bit of extra weight is ok, too much is not only a turn off, but it is unhealthy. Still though, I shouldn't have to explain myself, because it is my journal. Thanks for being honest though and feel free to respond if you like.

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