Circles anyone?

[mally_bleu]

So today has been interesting to day the least. I’ve been talking to Eric all day…. All day through text. We’ve been talking on and off ever since we broke up, but never really anything too great into detail. We had lunch last week after my interview and before I had to go to BR, and talked a lot; I think I already mentioned this…

Well this morning

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[crowded_avenue]

Sounds like you're at the EXACT same point as I am with Jeff.. I hate the unknown. I think I make it pretty clear I like him, but I can't ever tell with him. It's just so frustrating. I guess you just have to wait around, because I think asking will scare him away. I tried that and Jeff has been distant ever since.

As far as Eric, I think he still REALLY likes you. I'd keep my mind open to him, too. I don't think it's completely over ;-)

[mally_bleu]

As much as I want to ask with Zac; I do know better than to ask. He has been hurt twice by previous relationships, one by his exwife, and the other in a terrible accident (this girl that he moved in with after only knowing her for a month, they feel head over heels for each other died in a car crash a few years back); and I can't help but think that he is a tad cynical and is really cautious b/c of how hurt he has been in the past. And that relates to him pulling back a bit. We've only known each other for less than two weeks, and yet for me anyways it feels as though I've known him much longer. There is this connection with him that I can't explain....

As for Eric... I don't know. He was my first love, and there will always be a part of me with him, but I don't know if I could ever get back with him... there is so much pain affiliated with our last months together.... I do believe he is coming over for dinner tonight, so we will see where things go I suppose....

[ucf_princess_21]

I think because of the history you have w/ Eric there is going to be a soft spot for him - it's just a matter of defining the good memories you have and actual feelings of something more.

[mally_bleu]

I know. Thats what I need to figure out. Jess thinks he may just be lonely and reaching out... I think that may be too. But those words caught me off guard, and made me take a double take.

He is quite possibly coming over for dinner so we shall see tonight...

[dance_thrulife]

That early in the relationship the est thing to do is follow your heart, don't push for more just enjoy the moment and the butterflies you get.

[mally_bleu]

Yea... I do tend to rush things. Did it with Eric quite certianly. And also I'm just used to how Eric and I interacted our first months together. We talked every day, spent every other day together... while Zac has also moved that fast before with someone (his last serious relationship he moved from OR to NJ for her and they moved in together after only a month of dating). Perhaps due to his last two majour relationships turning out subpar, though the end of the second one wasn't his choice (she passed away) maybe he is getting scared with our quickness and is trying to slow things down. Or maybe he met someone else... or maybe its none of the above and he is busy with work and life... who knows you know? I just like it when I text someone to get a reply within a good time frame (which to me is within a few hours... though I do have high expectations when it comes to that.... tyvm Eric...) so really I'm not stressing too much over this. I would like for us to get to know each other better; but if not c'est le vie!