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[maryluvspunk]

Okay I really need some input on this, so some feedback would be nice. please

Comments

[dance_on_graves]

if i was in your position i think i would write them.

[c0c0c0]

I say fuck their feelings. Ask your questions. Tell them that you have wanted to know the answers since you were 7. Tell them you want answers and you will continue to send letters to them asking them questions until the answers you get are satisfactory to you.

[maryluvspunk]

I am not going to harrass them. I doubt their time in prison is the greatest, they don't need harrassing letters. So I am not going to send letter after letter until they answer.I hate the chance to hear what they had to say when the trial and sentencing happened. But my mom felt like I was too young to handle it, and she was right. There were graphic pictures and roxanna and david had to go in detail of the whole story. I am still on the "should i?" side on whether or not I will send a letter, but if I do and recieve no reply, that is that. Because harrassing them will get me taken to court, i can put money on it. I know how these people work and what goes on inside their heads...well for the most part i do. I didn't know that night they killed my father.
But thanks for your advice.

[holdnon]

Definitely ask your questions...especially if it will help you to have closure...You don't deserve to have to wonder about your fathers last moments...go for it girl!

[ejenterprises]

I think you are right to want to ask these people questions, and I would want to do the same thing if I were in your shoes. And I also understand that you would feel scared, because you have had all of these feelings festering inside of you since you were a little girl. You have to feel strong enough first though, to write down your questions in a calm, and composed matter. Make a practice letter and maybe let someone you trust read over it and give you their opinion on it. Just take your time, relax, and everything will turn out okay. Kisses! E

[maryluvspunk]

I planned on having a practice letter, in fact I have had practice letters for years now.
So have been calm and some...haven't.
Thank you for replying though, it does mean a lot.

[heatherlyx]

You are so extremely brave to do that. It's smart to be calm about it, because that way you have a better chance at an honest response, rather than taking out your anger, and your questions will never be answered. I don't know the details of the murder, but many times the murderers are open about what happened and are willing to talk about it. It's a way of closure for them and yourself. Good luck with it.

[maryluvspunk]

Thanks.