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[mayhemme]

My friend Wendy says I need to start taking a harder look at where I make my investments. Not financially, but emotionally. She thinks I really need to become tougher and not quite as willing to 'waste affection,' so to speak, on people who don't return it to the same extent

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[mawychick]

I agree with you. I understand she doesn't want you to get hurt, but I feel it better to live with a "love like you'll never get hurt" philosophy.

[leila_dessler]

Both sides have pros and cons, really, and I think, ultimately, this is something where you just, you have to decide which is best for you, which you can do and which you want to do. But I think you're a wonderful person, and I know it's really helped to have you to talk to many times. So not all your affection is wasted, I don't think.

[spin1978]

The analogy I like to use is the following - sometimes testing the waters and wading around is best before you dive in completely.

You still take the risk, but it's not all or nothing, you get an idea of what you're heading into before you fully commit.

Then again, that may just be the prudent monarch in me....

[violet_wine]

I agree with your friend, but then, I also know that you'll never stop acting the way you do. You also know what a heartless bitch I am, so *shrug* I don't think my opinion really matters.

[what_a_homo]

lol on-line passive-aggressiveness = comedy gold

[violet_wine]

That's right, biotch. XD