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So, it is less than 48 hours before I push mama outta the car and am free of all those crushing expectations for a month or two. No, I don't always feel like that, but as of late the level of judgement and her expectation that I will address and deal with and to a certain level, fix, everything she's not happy about has been mindnumbing
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Hopefully a long trip with a good friend will help put things into perspective for her and when she returns, she will see things more clearly. Maybe she'll see that I HAVE put a lot of thought into my decisions and that following your heart isn't always a mistake.
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I think when she sees a girl with a guy (who are NOT the "settle couples") she is seeing her x with her x's new person instead. She is probably feeling if that chick had backed off or had some restraint and had some class instead that Mama would still have the retirement lifestyle she had worked her entire life for...instead of scrambling around trying to grab as many little pieces as she can in order to have SOME resemblance of that life.
Each time she sees it......it is a hurtful twist of the knife that was plunged so deeply into her back...so that is why she is upset and angry...
I would recall what she said about you life choices BEFORE this all happened......that is probably a more accurate way of what she truly believes ......at least in my opinion.
*HUGS*
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