Reinventing of Mel

[melfo]

Dude am I feeling out of touch....Living with Kev is great, we've got a family going on (what with the huge dog and the tiny kitten), but I feel like all I ever do is work, eat, walk the dog, and sleep....I need to shake it up! I think my problem is that I'm having a hard time working up any enthusiasm for going out, since it'll be all sober and

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One day you're waiting for the sky to fall, the next you're dazzled by the beauty of it all

[anonymous]

Mel,

You know what? You think you don't have your shit figured out, but it sounds like you're on your way. You've come a long way babe, (hell we all have) and you know what things are only going to get better from here. So know that it's ok to not know exactly where you're going as long as you always remember where you've been. Know that there are so many people in your life who love you and who will support you no matter whether you decide to spend your life writing or nursing or breeding fat dogs. You are such a strong, bright, talented, thoughtful person and I know that when you find the right path you will never look back!

I love and miss you,

~Hava

PS. As far as spicing things up go- come visit me! Liz is coming the last week of May, that may be too soon for you, but know I would love it if you came whenever.

[exaggeration]

Oh and also please for the love of god do not perm your hair!! I have actually never seen it look good on someone our age.

[11bluebubbles]

yeah, life sux ass, especially when it hits you in the face by surprise. but all you can do is keep on keepin on and this rough patch will pass.

my advise: finish your degree, take out a loan if you have to, but you need a degree. and maybe english isn't what you want, fine, do something else. i'm done now, and if your not planning on doing a masters "IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT YOUR MARKS ARE" i swear by the gods above. so truck through it!!!! (whatever "it" might be).

more advise: no perm. not with your hair length, you'll look like a poodle :P i loved my perm! but i had hair almost to my butt when it was wet . . . evened out the poofiness.

last thing: CALL ME!! i work mon-fri 9:30-5:30, if you ever need to talk about anything, call me!! its nice to get away from the boys and your life for a while, its also VERY necessary!!!