This woman wants answers.

How do you define "femininity"?  What does it mean to be "feminine"?  Is Feminine the same as Female?  Are either (or both) the same as womanly?  If you identify as female, what makes you feel feminine?

Thanks in advance for your answers (and indulgence).  More musings on this subject to follow.

I'm done.  Just fork me.  I've had it with people who play manipulative headgames.

Rule #1 in Thee Cayre and Feeding of Thee Melyxa tm is: If one says something (particularly something cruel and/or inflammatory), and then makes a great show of how "I never said that!" and "That's not what I meant!" and (especially) "You must be imagining things!" ( Read more... )

Every time I say/write that I'm just on the cusp of returning to something resembling life as a more active correspondant, I'm stuck being incommunicado again, ad infinitum.  So i won't say that.  I will simply declare my Intention to a supportive Universe, and be gentle with myself while I balance desire with ability.  We've experienced some ( Read more... )

o/~  HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR
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The result from my last post should be:

Her Most Noble Lady Margot the Assiduous of Eschaton End

so there.

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Today is the day so full I feel awed and almost undeserving.

Today is the day I joined my lifewalk with my lover, my best friend, my sister, my soulmate, my student, my teacher, my apprentice, my collaborator, my coconspirator, my helpmate, my caretaker, my heart, my home.

Today is the day that my family (of blood and of choice) came together to ( Read more... )

Today is the day that my friend Liam (aka
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Of the many things that I have to be grateful for this year, the most important one is the community of loving family of choice, most of whom are on my LJ list. I want to thank you all for being yourselves and also for being patient with me through my almost total dissappearance at points, and my sporadic correspondence. It's been difficult to ( Read more... )

Give me one reason I'm going to hell.

Then post this request in your LJ, and I will tell you why YOU are doomed to eternal damnation.