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The Wrong One
Lashun suspected that Dan was seeing someone while she lay dying in the hospital, something she did not confide in me - probably because I made no effort to hide my hatred of him. Apparently, he's now dating and has moved in with the girl he was suspected of seeing ( Read more... ) -
End of Life
It's been hard but I've spoken to both families and I think the custody thing is figured thankfully. As suspected L's mom just wants to be a grandmom NOT a mom, D's mom was afraid of not being able to be a grandmom. The fact remains that he will not be able to really take care of her given his past... and his lack of skill set or vision for the ( Read more... ) -
And So It Begins
As Lashun begins to make her journey to the other side the grandmothers have begun to fight over custody of her little one. Rather, I just received a chain mail from Dan's mother detailing what's been happening with her health and treatment with a little bit of spite regarding Lashun's mom and what she believes that she is attempting to do ( Read more... ) -
Surrounding Yourself With Love
I need to vent ( Read more... ) -
Freedom! Screamed My Mom.
It's been about 2 months since my mother has left the grips of my cousin in Chicago and she's doing great. Took her about 1 month to make friends and integrate herself in her apartment community I chose and another couple of weeks to solidify that. Now she's very active in the community, I feel like I need to make an appointment to see her she's ( Read more... ) -
When Your Best Friend Has Cancer
Spoke to L the other day she's in a foul mood as the doctor won't release her because he still wants to do more test. She'd rather be at home, he'd rather figure out why she can't lay flat without complications. Did a Bronchoscopy and wants to do a mri / cat scan but because she can't lay flat they are trying to figure out alternative ways to see ( Read more... ) -
My Mom's Nightmare Relatives
I guess one of the biggest reasons that I'm having these crazy cancer scare issues is that on my father's side... everyone dies of it. They were big drinkers and smokers so I assume that could have helped trigger things but my cousin (my dad's sister's daughter) who is 50 just got diagnosed with breast cancer not to mention my cousin who is what I ( Read more... ) -
Back Pain
So the pain Im feeling is a throbbing one. Through the right shoulder blade, under the arm (on the ribcage), in my right breast, my lower back (right side), right thigh and right leg. Most times it's subduded but every once in awhile, like now, it's more pronounced and I've had to take a couple of high strength aspirin to help ease the pain I'm ( Read more... ) -
my crazy ass family
My cousin, whose been on welfare since she was 18, went off on me when I asked her not to take money from my mother this next month so she would have enough to move into a new apartment ( Read more... ) -
Customers
It continues to amaze and mystify me, some of the questions my customers ask me. Sometimes annoying, often amusing, extremely mind-boggling questions ( Read more... )