Awww I'm sorry you're in a bad mood Laura :( *huggs*
Gosh, WTF? That message is really strange. I would suggest texting him to ask what he meant. I would have said maybe it was a drunk text, but it would have been too early to have been. Wow, so inappropriate!
I'm proud of you for not cutting <3
Gosh, genetics are so interesting, right? Though there is extensive research that people think it's not necessarily true that mental illnesses are inherited. I think that certain aspects are. Like obsession - a Mum could have OCD about cleanliness, and her child could have an ED, which is essentially the same in that it's obsession, but it's about food? I guess it must be tough to try and prove anything though.
He finally text back saying 'hmmm one in bed'!!!! I was so so angry. I managed to speak to him on msn later though and he said it was a joke. Not funny. He thought I'd asked a few days ago if he regretted anything from us breaking up. That was what he came up with (!). I didn't even ask him - he had asked me if I regretted anything. I told him that I thought it was pretty inappropriate seen as we're both with other people now. Even if we weren't it would still have been inappropriate! He apologised though, said he hadn't thought of it coming across like that, and its sorted now.
Yeah, I'm not sure if I do think it's genetic but I think if you're surrounded by people who do have similar things like that then it's not surprising if it sort of rubs off on you. If that makes sense?
Oh my gosh! I would have been so upset! :( :O I can't believe he didn't even see that might have been insensitive. UGH GUYS SOMETIMES! *facepalm*
Yes, that does make sense! Though apparently things skip generations quite a lot, so it's common to follow in your grandparents footsteps. Apparently that's really common for having twins - if your gran has had twins, you're likely to but it skips your Mum, or something like that. Strange stuff!
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Gosh, WTF? That message is really strange. I would suggest texting him to ask what he meant. I would have said maybe it was a drunk text, but it would have been too early to have been. Wow, so inappropriate!
I'm proud of you for not cutting <3
Gosh, genetics are so interesting, right? Though there is extensive research that people think it's not necessarily true that mental illnesses are inherited. I think that certain aspects are. Like obsession - a Mum could have OCD about cleanliness, and her child could have an ED, which is essentially the same in that it's obsession, but it's about food? I guess it must be tough to try and prove anything though.
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Yeah, I'm not sure if I do think it's genetic but I think if you're surrounded by people who do have similar things like that then it's not surprising if it sort of rubs off on you. If that makes sense?
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Yes, that does make sense! Though apparently things skip generations quite a lot, so it's common to follow in your grandparents footsteps. Apparently that's really common for having twins - if your gran has had twins, you're likely to but it skips your Mum, or something like that. Strange stuff!
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That's revealing to you that issues run in your family. It's good to know those things.
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