you cannot quit me so quickly, there's no hope in you for me.

[midnitewolf]

today mandiefavor posted this.
"Sometimes I like to sit here and curse fate for my being so completely in love with someone I'll never work out with." Well, I figured it had to happen eventually. Someone posted something that tugged a string rooted so deeply in the fiber of an emotional experience of mine, that I need to comment on it or else i wont be able

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[mandiefavor]

Great post.

I am sorry for the part my entry played in it though... Even more reason for me to post mostly upbeat, fun stuff :)

Every day of my life I curse fate for my situation. I hate sitting around feeling sorry for myself, but sometimes I just can't help it when I'm afraid I'll end up spending the rest of my life aching for something I once had.

[midnitewolf]

thanks normandie :)

while I don't know the details of your situation, i really hope it wasn't fate that cursed it. I don't like getting into the mindset that anything is being determined in advance either positively or negatively, because that absolutely rules out any hopeful conclusion, and it makes me feel powerless over all aspects of my life.

When good stuff happens, people say it was fate.
When bad stuff happens, people say it was fate.
Either way the outcome is unknown, what point is there to believing that it was determined before the fact? You still don't find out until it happens.
Fate is too fickle for me.. i can't believe in it because it locks me into too singular a path for thought; I need to believe that I control my life, even if it isn't true. Fate would be outstanding if it was of any value as a predictive tool, but frankly it's worse than useless for telling the future.

I'll stick with my Magic 8-ball for that. At least its right half the time :)

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[sexychicken]

i know this is totally random, but i'm so glad you're on this thing. :) it's good to have you back in my life in some capacity. yayyy!

[midnitewolf]

awww.. Thanks Liz~

thats sweet. :D I was just thinking about this the other day.. I don't think I've seen you since I was 17 or 18 thereabouts.. It struck me that that's quite a chunk of time.

Its good to talk to you too. :D

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