Hypothetically speaking, of course...

[miffmuffin]

What do you do when you miss someone so much, but it hurts to even talk to them, let alone see them in person and spend time with them?

(That isn't a rhetorical question)

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[monkey_funkel]

I don't know

[miffmuffin]

me neither... I hope someone does

[jigsaw666]

You suffer alone sometimes, and then you either get lucky and it goes away or it doesn't. I hope for you that you do get lucky, but i can't say for sure. sometimes it goes away, sometimes it goes away, but it takes a little longer.
Really, there is no answer, only sympathy, emphathy, and old love letters, loud playing songs, string like memorys, calculated moments of weakness and resolution and strength and hate and self-love and loathing all at the same time, and the feeling that if you could only live in the future all would be better. But soon we'll all live in the future, one minute, one second, one idea at a time.

Have hope, be strong.

[miffmuffin]

the sad thing is, I'd much rather live in the past...

and old love letters can't be read right now. They're in a box with pictures and stuff like that.

Re:

[jigsaw666]

I have that box too.
I don't look at it.

[astroboy009]

*hugs*
kara, i don't know if there is anything... but i would figure sheilah would know...

[sweetloveableme]

*HUG*
spend lots of time with other people that love you (I'm coming home on the 14th) and eventually it won't hurt quite so much

[miffmuffin]

I'll do that. It almost feels like I'm using you guys too much to fall back on, and that I should have appreciated you more and given you more lovin' before I needed it so much... not that I didn't always appreciate you. I always did, and I always will :) But, I'm sorry I'm being so needy and THANK YOU for being there for me.

[sweetloveableme]

don't worry hun, you always gave plenty of lovin'... and that's what we're here for!

[jigsaw666]

that's right :D

[steven_mageven]

Lets see... You have to bottle up the emotions around them and learn to never let them know that it hurts you. Eventually it will hurt less and less until finally that person stops wanting to hang around you, or you no longer hurt around that person...

But then again, that's not the healthiest option... But I don't live a healthy life do I...

[miffmuffin]

I don't think bottling my emotions is the right thing for me to do, he knows exactly how I feel (I think).

Steven, if you ever want to talk, don't hesitate to call or icq me, okay?

[steven_mageven]

Talk ?? What is this talk you speak of ?? :)

As a general rule, I don't like to impose my small problems on others. Ps, My nanny had the operation, and everything went well... but we won;t know for another week or two if it's spread yet...

[miffmuffin]

*whew* SO glad it went well, I hope it keeps going well :)