1) Have vanilla sex with Grant. So you don't push all the right buttons, so what? You can still connect physically and share that intimacy, even if it doesn't totally rock your world, or his. Because sex is like pizza - even if it ain't so great, it's still pretty good.
2) Find a new kink or interest you can share. You're both young yet. Who's to say you've discovered every freakish corner of your mind already? Experiment and try something out. You may find a hidden compatibility.
3) This one depends on your situation - though I don't know it. But I have yet to find any two sexual identities that couldn't be brought together in some way. If not a perfect fit, then some scene or activity that would satisfy both parties.
Oh, and the hidden intimacy thing? I went through that too. More as a result of a difficult coming out than maternal influence, but I hear ya. It'll fade as you find comfort with your feelings and self-acceptance. That part's the same everywhere.
Mrarf, I give a chunk of love to those I feel close to, be it emotional ties through kink or otherwise. I fear I may have underestimated the time we spent together. I guess I did not realize how special it was to bring you and Grant together for some fun. We should do it again very soon. *hugs* You two are missed.
its one of the big fursterations or both of us. we dont know why exactly, but we both get way more eager to play around when friends come into town. and yeah you should come up or something, since its been too long :)
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1) Have vanilla sex with Grant. So you don't push all the right buttons, so what? You can still connect physically and share that intimacy, even if it doesn't totally rock your world, or his. Because sex is like pizza - even if it ain't so great, it's still pretty good.
2) Find a new kink or interest you can share. You're both young yet. Who's to say you've discovered every freakish corner of your mind already? Experiment and try something out. You may find a hidden compatibility.
3) This one depends on your situation - though I don't know it. But I have yet to find any two sexual identities that couldn't be brought together in some way. If not a perfect fit, then some scene or activity that would satisfy both parties.
Oh, and the hidden intimacy thing? I went through that too. More as a result of a difficult coming out than maternal influence, but I hear ya. It'll fade as you find comfort with your feelings and self-acceptance. That part's the same everywhere.
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