How more obvious need I be?

[milackovi]

7 days ago: I went to the Carleton (a Club) with a few friends. Lets call one of them guy A (the other men will also get letters). So, I am friends with guy B, who likes me (i dont like him more than a friend), he and his friends C and D were there too. So, I was drunk even before we left (had a party). After half an hour I had gotten drinks from

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[yareach]

I think I got that... possibly.
Eep, yes, men can be very creepy.
Guy C sounds exasperating.
And why not just tell guy A outright that you like him? 'Twill save you all a lot of time. :p

I am scared to do so

[milackovi]

there are several problems with this
1. he is TALL!! Even with high heels I only reach his shoulder!!
2. my friend Jen likes him too (however, she will move back to the states after Christmas)
3. he lives in the flat below mine, and thus in the same block with me. If it went wrong i could hardly avoid him
4. we hardly ever met sober (only on the street or on the way out)
5. I know he doesnt want a girlfriend (I overheard him say that to Juuso) and here that means that a guy is only up for one-night things - and I am not to be had for that
6. the one time we were getting a little closer to flirting I was going out with someone else and eventually left with the other guy...
7. term is nearly over, one more week, no time!!! we usually dont hang out with the same people anyways and i am completely planned out

:-(

[juusto]

Heh, I actually understood :)

You make my day, Anne! Hihi
Yes, some men are very odd.

[milackovi]

yea, i was actually speechless for a while! can u believe that? The only think on my mind (for several days) was "What the heck!!"

[mersey_girl]

Ergh! Men can be so exasperating! and clearly egocentric....
And what I didn't understand about guy C is that I am aware that us girls can confuse guys with mixed signals but there are some times when they should just KNOW! And kisses can mean a huge amount...and I'm really sure his fiance would kill herself if he ever upped and leaved, I mean, give us some self control!
Dude, go for guy A! (though maybe wait till after xmas and don't be so pessamistic!)

[milackovi]

thank you
yes I shall try to "catch" guy A. good idea to leave it until Christmas (maybe i ll have forgotten him by that time anyways, so thats clearly the best option - not the forgetting bit, but the waiting)

[milackovi]

And i dont think she would kill herself if he left her... i just think its some sort of over-self-confidence on his side. thinking: "i'm too good, to not be causing suicide when ending a relationship"... that dude s got more ego than I...