So here I go again

[hawk2007]

Ok so this weekend was my boyfriends drill weekend. He came to see me friday and then spend sunday night and all of monday with me. I am happy that he wants to and is willing to spend so much time with me, I really do love him. He gave me a huge surprise this weekend, he gave me a pair of his dogtags. Now I am a little scared about taking them

Comments

[schonesleben]

1. I wear my husbands dog tags all the time. He's never gotten in trouble for it.

2. Engaged again?

3. Why would you even entertain the thought of going camping (alone, isolated) with your ex? Especially one you know your current bf does not like.

4. And, complaining that he hasn't proposed...right this second is a sure way to change his mind. Getting engaged is kind of a big deal. Not something to rush because you are annoyed.

[hawk2007]

I dont want to get engaged because I am annoyed I just want him to stop hinting. Thats what I find annoying, I just believe that if he really wants to then he should ask when he is ready not hinting when hes not. We have had this talk many times before, he says hes not ready and I know I sure as hell am not ready.

I dont want to go camping with my ex, after we broke up I didnt even think he would ask to tell you the truth. I am going to see my boyfriend and his family that weekend. Im not even going to go see my ex even if its with a group of people.

[moderndayhippie]

it sounds like he is probably hinting to see what your reaction is. If you don't want to get engaged, you need to tell him before he goes and spends his hard earned money.

[hannahvictoria]

Then you should have said "I am not going because I LOVE my boyfriend and would never want to spend any time alone with my ex"
Not that you aren't going because the only weekend you aren't working, you wanna spend with the boyfriend.

It's 2 different things, completely. And makes us think there still might be something there with the ex.
For me anyways..

[hello_blondie]

I wear my boyfriend's dog tags all the time; he has more than one pair.

[c0c0nut]

I wear my SO's dog tags also. He hasn't gotten in trouble, atleast not that I know.

If you don't want to get engaged yet maybe you should hint that to him, before it blows up into an arguement of a sort.

[fede]

If you feel as though you're not ready to get engaged (from your comments), just tell him - but in a nice way. It'd be something like, "I've noticed that you've been dropping hints at us becoming engaged again. I feel as though I'm not ready for that stage of our relationship and I don't want to rush things. While the thought of us being together for the long run is nice, I would appreciate you not hinting about the subject because I am uncomfortable with this topic right now." Or something along those lines that just says that while you do love him, you're just not there yet.

If you feel that way about your ex - just tell your ex that you don't want to remain in contact with him. If he keeps contacting you, ignore him and tell your boyfriend that you're going to be ignoring his attempts at contact. It could be that your boyfriend may feel slightly threatened by your ex - especially if you've told him the current reason why he's contacting you.

[3ticklemepink3]

He's an ex for a reason. You have a new boyfriend and you have no business hanging around with your old boyfriend. You're just ASKING for something to happen.
Do you really think he will "keep his hands to himself". He wants to go camping alone with you, think about it.

Tell your new boyfriend your going camping alone with your ex boyfriend and I'm sure he won't be proposing any time soon.

[schonesleben]

Your last sentenced cracked me up.

And....omg that baby is cute!

[3ticklemepink3]

Lol well it's TRUE!

And thankyou!! :-P

[schonesleben]

Omg. Quit posting new icons...he's so cute it's making my teeth hurt!