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[ministrychick77]

i'm not even sure how to type this. seems me and jake are gonna be divorcing. i never wanted this to happen. seems he found a new girl who will spread her legs for him. she's a fucking teenager! what does she know about life?! he'll be looking for kids in a few years, and i know she's not, cause she's too young. i got the classic and overused "i

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[olyengineer]

I think you need to do some counseling. Most of your posts are negative and depressing. It is best to be empowered and in control. Pick up your pieces and move on. It is a wonderful life.

Enjoy. Live long and prosper.

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[truehearted]

I concure with this.

You still have much life to live. If he isnt going to be apart of yours, than let him take his own road.

No, never easy, and the pain sure as hell wont go away.

But you can fill the empty with something else...just make it non-destructive *nods*

Might i suggest a change in music? look into a different style maybe, listen to other things. Or activities, try some new craft in your times of low...

Just some ideas...take them as you will

[dogmadeth]

As much as you may not want to hear it, the above two comments are accurate on needing to work on moving on. (And about it not being easy)

I have known the two of you as friends for many years now and the situation is a sad one to be sure but one that cannot forcibly be recovered. This is a situation where mutual friends do not wish to "take sides" and by posting publicly it makes avoiding that very difficult which is why people, as you say, do not want to listen anymore. It doesn’t have anything to do with how they care about you or him but that when they see things written it in a way forces an opinion that causes favor to shift from one side or another, friends do not like to be put in this position. I will never say that I 100% agree with you or him on anything regarding this because of that feeling.

I wish the best for both of you no matter the circumstances. Make yourself strong for no one other then yourself.

[ripmorbidkitty]

I'm so sorry! I didn't know. I'm not on myspace much or catch much that does go on.
Stay strong Becky, you've been strong in the past. It's best to take care of yourself first. There's no point in being brought down by someone who's not willing to be there. Only they will make the decision to come back even if they have to learn the hard way, but let them. That's life. This is your time of self empowerment, to find yourself and take time to heal.

truehearted said it well:
"No, never easy, and the pain sure as hell wont go away.
But you can fill the empty with something else...just make it non-destructive *nods*"

The pain will go away though. It will take a long time though, but your heart WILL heal. Just don't give up on yourself. There's too much out there for you to do and find.
*hugs*