on expectations & boundaries

[minkrose]

I am really, really tired of the assumption that I owe people anything of myself

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[spinrabbit]

I hear you. Many of the things you say here hold for me as well. I hope that more people respect your boundaries. I hope that things get less shitty.

I want you to know that I think it would be really excellent if things shook out in a way that results in our getting to hang out or work on things together, someday/year/decade when we both have the resources. If that doesn't shake out, there are other things in the world that could also be excellent.

No reply expected.

Waving,

Rachel KG

[shadesong]

*big hugs* We know. We love you. We'll still be here.

[mizarchivist]

Clincal diagnosis = shitshow. I can relate. Love and strength and good sleep I wish unto you dear one.

[masterballditto]

You need to take care of you first. And weed out anything/anyone that is toxic and weighing you down. That's what I've been learning these past couple of years. You want to give everyone everything, but you can't give if there is nothing of you left.

So you take care of you. :)