i gotta tell someone, but forgive the spelling/typing until i get to a normal keyboard to edit - the eeepc isn't conducive to lots of typing
( Read more... )
It sounds so much harder than one might expect. I've never had a problem with monogamy but I have a hard time with the emotional end of being with just one person, and lately I think that polyamory might be my only option.
i just went from fucking around because i needed an outlet to being in love with 3 people so quickly. there were really only 3 other guys since oct. I fucked around with but didn't wanna date or even feel attached to at all, and i stopped talking to all of them eventually, so how satisfying is that? this is like a paradigm shift.
I learned the hard way, love hits you when you're especially not looking for it. I have also learned it is entirely possible to be madly in love with more than one person. I find you profoundly interesting and well spoken. I wish the rest of the world could confront the emotions you do with the honesty that you take such heat for. It's not so far fetched... early superior cultures practiced all sorts of polygamy (like the greeks) and were better for it. I think it was a weird Christian take over that forced such strict heterosexual monogamy on our culture. Whenever you need a friend who is not trying to get in your pants, (but would if her husband could share) give me a call. *Libby*
Comments 3
Reply
Reply
Reply
Leave a comment