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[miss_g]

I have three friends who recently broke up long term relationships (two years or over). All of them knew the partner in question would not fight for them.

And they didn't.

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[halo_of_thorns]

That's so sad :(

[purples]

I hope you are ok Gem.

I am on a film set tonight but give Campbell a call if you need some cheering up.

[miss_g]

Thanks samantha. It's not me, it's other people's relationships. But who's to say it can't happen. You don't stay with someone for several years with the aim to break up. It's so depressing.

I hope you were able to do something with your hair. Hey, you'll laugh about it in years to come... maybe. :-)

[purples]

I am glad to hear it isnt you guys.

Not every relationship breaks down and if it is meant to be they will make it work and even come back to each other.

My hair is a lot lighter now ;p.

Once the extentions are out I will know how bad it really is - and then I can go back to wearing wigs if need be.

[thatgirlsarah_]

I hate it when that happens.

[miss_g]

You say it as if you just spilled soup on your top!

[thatgirlsarah_]

It's just happening alot, all around me lately.

[miss_g]

You have no idea how warm and fuzzy that icon makes me feel! Sooo cute! Reminds me of josh.

[zenandtheart]

I wouldn't fight for someone who wanted to break up with me... although I don't know the relationships you're talking about obviously!

[miss_g]

What if that person broke up with you because they couldn't handle the emotional strain you put on them? If you were something like an alcoholic, a cheater or a drug taking free loader?

What if you thought "What is the point in me putting all the effort into keeping this alive?? I'm killing myself emotionally and physically for someone who wouldn't do the same for me if it came down to the harsh reality."

[desconcerter]

... i hope they will be ok. anyone i know? i'd like to give em a hug.

[miss_g]

Yeah, you probably know them, or of them.

[unikorn]

I wonder why it is that we want people to "fight for us" ?
Perhaps it's some sort of secret measure for how much they want you, thus making you feel secure?

I know in my mind I'm always thinking "dammit, I wish he would try harder to impress me" ... and I kinda feel guilty for thinking that way sometimes.

[miss_g]

Of course you need to feel secure. Why would you be with someone who makes you feel insecure?

Don't feel guilty. Your boyfriend should work as hard as you do at the relationship.