I think apologizing is the way to go, not nessisarily for a reaction/forgivness from her.. but for you, like so the 'ball' is not in your 'court' anymore and you've said you're sorry.. Does that make any sense?
i think i would want to hear from someone. i was a total loser in middle school and people were really mean to me, it really impacted me. i know i'd like an apology...
Oh... yeah just so you dont think I was just being a jerk she did do something to me to piss me off... it wasnt completely without warrant. But in hidsight, she didnt deserve the figurative heaping pile of shit I dumped on her.
Haha, somehow throughout my childhood and adolescence I flucuated between being a meek little mouse and a vindictive hell-bitch. Luckily for everyone I'm balancing out and becoming a rather rational, mild-mannered, and thoughtful individual.
I would not want to receive a message like that via MySpace, Email, or anything else where a timely response is obviously expected from the recipient.
Last year I got an apology letter mailed to me (in my RA role) from a resident (who still lived in the same building), apologizing for how he had behaved towards me during a documentation earlier in the year. I did not want to say anything to him about it for quite some time while I figured out how I felt about it and whether I did forgive him.
I sent her a quick message last night. Personally, I'm ok if she doesnt respond for a while. I just want her to know I regret my behavior toward her back then. As long as she knows its ok with me. Whether or not she fogives me or doesnt or even if she laughs like "Wtf is this, 7-8 years later?" is fine with me.
I'd say that if you're genuinely sorry about what you did to this girl, then apologize. Whether or not she "wants" one, it would probably help her let go of a lot of shit that she's probably held on to, and it'd probably do the same for you.
I sent her a message, we will see what happens. I kinda hope she has already let go of whatever shit I put her through, and this apology makes her laugh! I will keep you updated.
It was quite a while ago, right? So the grudge, while still there, should have subsided a little bit. A quick apology will do nicely, followed by a couple of nice drinks.
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wow i can't picture you being mean to anyone!
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Haha, somehow throughout my childhood and adolescence I flucuated between being a meek little mouse and a vindictive hell-bitch. Luckily for everyone I'm balancing out and becoming a rather rational, mild-mannered, and thoughtful individual.
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yeah i figured she did something...
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Last year I got an apology letter mailed to me (in my RA role) from a resident (who still lived in the same building), apologizing for how he had behaved towards me during a documentation earlier in the year. I did not want to say anything to him about it for quite some time while I figured out how I felt about it and whether I did forgive him.
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It was quite a while ago, right? So the grudge, while still there, should have subsided a little bit. A quick apology will do nicely, followed by a couple of nice drinks.
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