My decision

[misstang]

My first notion told me to cancle my livejournal, there really is no point to it. Anyone who needs to know, calls me, not reads it in a journal. Except my helmholtz buddy :). My i did second guess myself and decide to keep it because i enjoy expressing my feelings and venting on the good ole LJ. So i will update my last update on the josh, anothony

Comments

[helmholz]

Hey, cool, acknowledgement!

I'm the type of person who says the little things count, because they add up to be major issues. Most of the time people won't change. I think you guys seriously need a good amount of time apart. All this drama going on can't last forever; or, it shouldn't. Something's gotta give and I know there are a lot of sentimental things that you want to hold on to, but if it's making life so difficult I'm not sure if it's worth it.

Good luck.

Thanks...

[misstang]

I always love to have ur advice....thanks

[tennisshoefreak]

I agree. You guys beed to spend time apart. Even if that means he needs to leave for a while and live somewhere else for a little bit like with his parents or someone then so be it. You my friend are WAY too confused right now and you need to spend some time apart from each other. Now....onto the "little" things that bother you. When he leaves the cd player open or whatever all that good stuff. You sound like my mother when you say that! My gosh, lol...OK maybe because I do the same things but come on....Eventually he will pick it up or whatever. trust me...I do it all the time, lol. You guys obviously want to be together....but you guys need to live seperate for a while....

THERE YA GO!!! Man! I should be a therapist!! haha

[tennisshoefreak]

need* too, lol

[tennisshoefreak]

I am so glad I am not in a relationship.....geez. JUST KIDDING....I mean a complicated one, haha. Luckily Charles is like funny too and we don't fight about that kind of stuff, lol

Not possible

[misstang]

You cant move in with someone, move out, then move back in again. You just cant do it, it defeats the purpose. If you cant work it out the first time, what makes u think ne thign will change the second time. And what am i confused about???? Well thanks for tryig to help ne way

YES possible!!

[tennisshoefreak]

Your confused about your feelings! You are just thinking about it too much!! And I don't know how to tell you this: but you can move in and move out with someone. You guys NEED time alone. A weekend won't do it. Or a couple nights out with friends won't work either. Either he needs to leave for a couple weeks and lives with his parents or he sleeps either upstairs or downstairs and you guys just not talk. WHICH youre going to say isn't possible. Jesus christ go to fucking couples therapy!!!

Re: YES possible!!

[misstang]

When did u become Dr. phil