Alright world, here's the deal.

[mit_kase]

I am not a dyke. Regardless of what people seem to think. I am quite comfortably straight. I'm sick of being asked if I'm a lesbian/dyke/butch/whatever-other-term-you-want-to-substitute-to-mean-"not-straight

Comments

[solitary_candor]

hahaha, i run into that too. more so in high school, like you. i had two really close female friends that were, of course, my lesbian lovers. but it always catches me off guard when strangers think i'm a guy. it happens now that i have short hair. it's just weird. i generally don't think i look like a guy. but don't be more feminine. adhering to gender stereotypes is nooo good. make everyone else feel stupid instead.

chelsea

[mit_kase]

The only reason I've found that it occurred more in high school is that in college, no one cares all that much. I am me, and that is just fine. But that just doesn't fly here.
Adhering to gender stereotypes is not good, but neither is decreased self-esteem due to public confusion. Where's the balance? I think of it more as practice with acting. I am merely acting a feminine role. Or I could go for full-out androgyny and really mess with people when they can't figure it out.
..and would this be a certain Goshen Chelsea that I love oh-so-much?

[solitary_candor]

yes it would! haha! oh facebook leaving a news feed about a livejournal, to which i have not posted in forever.

[mit_kase]

OOh, yes. I have my livejournal set to send a notification to my facebook, just so anyone who pays attention will be able to read my writings. I'd rather do it here than on 'notes' or something.

Never forget...

[bloodyophelia]

...androgyny is hot, dear. Don't change how you're comfortable to fit in with s'dale. Never a good idea. muah.

Re: Never forget...

[mit_kase]

Thanks, love. I can't let myself drift back into Scottdalianism.
And you should bring American Astronaut when you come home next.