remembering

[mohka]

if i were to ask you to write down everyone you've kissed, made out with/fooled around with, slept with, would you be able to?  it doesn't have to be in any particular order, if you don't remember names, but recall them in a different way then that's fine as well... but if i were to ask you to make a "numbered list" of each, would you be able to?

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[xdingo76x]

ouch...sounds like he didnt make a very good impression on you, but you made a pretty strong one on him...guess that connection just wasnt there huh...

[mohka]

it weird though.. whenever i've been involved with a guy and then it finishes, i don't want anything to do with him again. from a distance, if there's a possibility it's a guy that i've dealt with, i will turn around and walk the other day.

if doesn't matter if i'm the one who ended it.. i just don't want to deal with that part of my past.

but with him.. i know there was something. and it ended somehow even though i don't remember how. yet, i don't mind running into him.

maybe he has made a pretty good impression on me.

[xdingo76x]

so you think there might be something with this guy?

[mohka]

nah there's nothing... that was a long time ago. and whatever it was, i guess i'm okay with it, when normally i wouldn't be.

[donkey88]

if you don't remember, then it probably wasn't a significant event in your life (not to say that he wasn't a good friend but sounds like you weren't really into him in that way or else you'd remember)

[mohka]

i remember hanging out with him consistantly for a while.. i just don't remember any of the physical except for that one time at industry... he was gonna kiss me, but the cigarette in his hand burnt my face.. OUCH! it actually took off a layer of my skin. gross!

but i remember my times together with him... him & i have some fond memories. i just don't remember any of the physical stuff.

is this sad?

[teenbeat16]

...cuz i can remember EVERY guy i kissed/fooled around with/slept with!

as for you and that guy, sure maybe he didn't make an impression on you back then, but question is...can you make new memories now?? or do you even want to?!?! he sounds like he may want to hang out again. whatever 'hang out' means....

Re: is this sad?

[mohka]

lol.. yes he wants to hang out again... but not that kind of 'hang out'! well not at least the kind of 'hang out' as i define it... whatever that is.

he has a girl.. so we won't be making any kind of the memories i think you're speaking of.

btw, i didn't get your gmail IM til later.. i was away from the computer.. sorry. =(

Re: is this sad?

[mohka]

and btw, it's NOT sad that you can remember EVERY guy you have kissed/fooled around with/slept with. i thought i could, but i guess i'm the sad one!

[jnieva1220]

i remember and, for some, still trying to forget
oftentimes, people remember the same moment differently
so it could've been trivial/casual/forgettable to you but to him, it was probably memorable/special/unique
guess it's all perception

[mohka]

you're right. it's all about perception. i remember him, but not in the same way he remembers me.

[donkey88]

look, I think Quagmire is trying to make a move in your pic! LOL

[mohka]

hahaha.. and that's all because of you!