Query

[molikai]

I'm interested: How would Y'all describe me and your experiences of me? I'm explicitly looking for constructive criticism here.
S'just lately I've been getting the impression I'm being avoided or just aren't welcome, and I'd kinda like to know why. 'sides, It's coming up on time for a self-review, and I need feedback.
Chakara,
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lahimset,

Comments

[campbellking]

You are wayyyyyyy too British!

Nah, you've struck me as an intelligent person, very well educated and very capable of thinking on your own. You also seem quite proud of that fact; you flaunt it at times. Like I said, British :p But then again, I'm quite proud of my education and my ability to teach, and I'm more than ready to throw it in just about anyone's face, so I've never faulted you for it. I think it's why you and I have such great arguments.

[arctic_silence]

I agree with this - great arguments indeed - more like debates which end in gigglefests and conceding my points in my case. ^_^

[arctic_silence]

Having talked with you online and on the phone, I can say you are one of VERY few people who know exactly how to make me laugh and feel better about myself when no one else can. (Only my guy friends are able to do that, oddly. Women suck.) I'm not avoiding you, if you're wondering. I'd call you if I were able to, but I'm still not sure if I can call internationally on my phone...I don't think I can with this new plan either, sadly. :( I've missed talking to you though. I don't update much anymore because I feel the need to write more in my paper journal than I do here, and it's probably for the better. You're one of those friends that ends up getting taken for granted though, because you're so dependable that people just don't think about having to do anything to "keep" you as a friend - you're just there no matter what.

*curses phone some more*

I suppose that's no excuse...I could e-mail you. ;)

[dayquilblue]

First time I met you online you were immediately friendly and welcoming, very helpful and willing to take the time to explain things. It was much appreciated.

You put a lot of thought into just about everything. Maybe too much sometimes, which might lead you to read too much into what other people say or do (people who don't think as much and don't go through the rigorous self-analysis that you do). This makes you very good at reading people, but sometimes there's nothing there to read!

You're quite easy to talk to though, and you do have a great ability to make me laugh and feel better. You do help to put presented problems into perspective (how's THAT for some wicked alliteration? WOO.).

Anyways - *hugs*.

Feel better.

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[vocedelalma]

Douglas Pros: Very memorable. I remember our /first/ conversation. Intelligent. Creative problem solving skills. Realistic. Excellent grasp of the obscure. Compassionate. Human.

Douglas Cons: Horrendous grasp of the obvious (i.e. the girl that had a crush on you, that you missed). Overly analytical. Gets lost too easily in creative processes (i.e. find the solution to the problem, but not able to complete it due to too many bunny trails). Human.

I think that's about it for now.