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mommat20

What do you do?

Feb 06, 2006 15:57

What do you do when a friend of yours stops talking to you? Its been a while since you last talked or saw each other. You miss them but are afraid to call because of what their reaction might be. You find out some news that hurts you because it proves that that person was/is a liar after everythin they told you doesnt match what the other person ( Read more... )

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maidenforce February 7 2006, 17:58:31 UTC

A lot of what you should do depends on you. It sounds like you weren't too sure of the friendship to begin with, but enjoyed the benefits of being around this friend because it was someone to hang with - occasionally to have fun with. In my experience - I find it easier this way - I would chalk it up to some good memories, move on, and enjoy new relationships that are just waiting to be formed. There are SO many people out there to be friends with. I don't know - I guess I don't get so attached to people, so maybe its easier. But hey - we all know when someone is genuine and when they are not. Your questions scream that you question his/her sincerity from the get go, i.e., feeling used, or inconsistency in stories, lying or what not. I venture to say they really weren't worth the worry in the first place.

Good luck!

Thank you mommat20 February 8 2006, 01:53:51 UTC

You are so right! The thing is its easier said than done. I treasure my friendships and I hate losing even 1 person wheter or not they "used" me or not. I still want to keep them as an aquantaince (sp). Other than that you are so right. You barely know me but yet it seems you do. This is hard to judge too cuz there is a third and possibly a forth person involved meaning our other friends who god only knows what they say to either of us about the other. So that makes things even harder.

But thank you for taking the time out to leave a reply. I have decided to just give it time and see what happens. After a little time has passed I hope that we will be able to talk and be friends again or maybe i will move on completely and forget about all the "fake" friends that I have or maybe they aren't fake. I do not know.