Hmmm...I also think that romantic love is a choice. However, I believe that once you have been romantically in love with someone for a long time or even for a brief, yet intense time, there will eternally be a place in your heart for that person. So in that sense, that aspect of your love would be unconditional.
I also think that people love in different kinds of ways depending on their beliefs, past influences, and personalities.
You can't control who you fall in love with, but you can control how you react to it. I was married before, and I wasn't really in love with him. I didn't know anything or wasn't thinking then. I kept telling myself that I should be in love with him, but unfortunately, it just didn't happen. So I learned that I couldn't meet someone and say, "Hmmm I'm going to fall in love with this person, because I think I should be." I've also loved people in the past that I knew it would be impractical for me to be in love with for one reason or another. As much as I loved One person, who I lived with for four years, I had to leave, because he had too many anger issues and had said things that hurt me very much. I knew that staying with him would eventually affect my health both emotionally and spiritually. So you can love someone even though you know you shouldn't or don't want to. I think that's why some people stay in relationships that are harmful to them. They aren't strong enough to realize that there is life after leaving that person that
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I also think that people love in different kinds of ways depending on their beliefs, past influences, and personalities.
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To summarise: I feel that love, for anyone on any level, is complex and not always what it seems.
How very vague :/
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