I would never take advantage of her. Ever. And if for some reason she thought I was or I thought I was, I would do anything in my power to change the situation, or to leave. I'm not that kind of person. And people who have never even met me don't get to make that decision about me.
Outrage is good... totally appropriate and in order. They're slanderously wrong, and anyone who knows you at ALL knows that. I have never known you to not pull not only your own weight, but at least half of someone else's too.
You have every right to be hurt and upset. Just know that most of the rest of the world knows better - and everyone who really counts does. *hugs*
FWIW - For What It's Worth.
*hugs* love you. Breathe. Bethany knows better, and right now that's what really matters. Stupid people will be stupid. Unfortunately, sometimes hurt people don't know how to just feel hurt, and have to take it out on others to try to make themselves feel better. Sometimes people go way overboard trying to protect people they care about without knowing the real facts, trying to shield them from hurt they can't do anything about. It all comes down to stupid people being stupid, though, and unfortunately we can't stop that. =( *loves*
D came up with a line while we were working for that behemothSoft, "I am beginning to understand the depths of your ignorance." Use it on clueless people...
I wish I knew the people that are saying these things. And none of it is ever direct, it's just people implying all of it. Because then I would tell them to their face that they're ignorant and it's none of their god damn business anyway and to BUTT THE HELL OUT! *ahem* Anyway.
Heh, FWIW... makes sense. Apparently I'm just retarded. Lol.
I agree--fuck'em if they don't like you. I know you, and I know you're a phenomena fucking human being. i'm sure Bethany does as well, otherwise she wouldn't have you in her life. SOme people have these needs; the need to control their situation, the need to control others, the need to be right all the time, and it interferes with their anti-dumbass switch. When a person discovers that their world is not in fact under their grubby, pudgy, sweaty little thumb, they often get upset and try to blame somebody, anybody for their complete lack of a handle on the situation. Death brought that into my family too; when my grampa died, my eldest aunt basically disowned us all and went batshit crazy on my poor grieving gramma. People anger me as well...
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*hugs*
I'm sorry people are being assholes. FWIW, those of us who know you and care about you know better.
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And thanks. I needed to rant because it's so ridiculous and I was so hurt by it, and outraged.
*hugs* Love you.
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You have every right to be hurt and upset. Just know that most of the rest of the world knows better - and everyone who really counts does. *hugs*
FWIW - For What It's Worth.
*hugs* love you. Breathe. Bethany knows better, and right now that's what really matters. Stupid people will be stupid. Unfortunately, sometimes hurt people don't know how to just feel hurt, and have to take it out on others to try to make themselves feel better. Sometimes people go way overboard trying to protect people they care about without knowing the real facts, trying to shield them from hurt they can't do anything about. It all comes down to stupid people being stupid, though, and unfortunately we can't stop that. =(
*loves*
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Hugs!
ps FWIW for what it's worth
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Heh, FWIW... makes sense. Apparently I'm just retarded. Lol.
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