I think he's an abusive douchebag, albeit one with some redeeming/endearing qualities. Last time we met (by accident) we were all coldly civil and passive aggressive at each other.
I'd like to think I'm the kind of person who could be friends with exes in theory, it's just that my sample size is small.
Hmmm. Old fuckbuddies and pseudoexes (there was someone I sort of saw somewhat regularly in undergrad but I didn't know what it was about exactly and it was sort of stagnant and not going anywhere, but not bad) tend to not talk really, even the ones who accept friend invites on Facebook. I'd probably feel better on occasional speaking terms or something. Everyone is different about these things.
And... yeah. Faking death, that's... a decent sign that you're better off not talking again ever. I don't know what exactly you were like at the time, though... sometimes it's hard to make someone go away. Or... who knows what else. But it's a bit over the top, yeah.
hmm.. I am not friendly with my very first ex.. I think he is an idiot.
As for the others, I probably would be more friendly with them if I were better at keeping track of people and being friendly. I don't feel any ill will toward any of them. they were all mostly from high school anyway. I haven't really kept track of anyone from high school. Well, actually, now that i think about it, I am pretty friendly with my most recent ex (from 7 years ago) and made his kid a hat. I also poke him for actually liking that Legend of the Seeker show based on that Terry Goodkind series I told him about.
And good job. Actually, I probably know someone whose kid could use a hat, now that I'm thinking about it. Not a full-blown ex or anything. But we did it once. Oh yeah.
I'm not a fan of his. In fact, he's a complete loser, and THANK GOD I didn't marry him like I probably would have if he had been up for it. Usually, I try not to think about how much I liked him when I was 15 and how heartbroken I was when he dumped me (all 3 times). It's bad for my self-image.
15 is weird times. I got triple-dumped when I was 15... I think my comments about religion on Facebook horrify her now, but I don't know exactly because she doesn't reply to anything ever.
It really was weird times. Not that it's an option, but I wouldn't be a teenager again for anything. And actually I might pay someone a fair amount of money to have that time erased from my memories. (Also, you seem to horrify a lot of people on FB with your religion stuff.)
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I'd like to think I'm the kind of person who could be friends with exes in theory, it's just that my sample size is small.
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And... yeah. Faking death, that's... a decent sign that you're better off not talking again ever. I don't know what exactly you were like at the time, though... sometimes it's hard to make someone go away. Or... who knows what else. But it's a bit over the top, yeah.
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As for the others, I probably would be more friendly with them if I were better at keeping track of people and being friendly. I don't feel any ill will toward any of them. they were all mostly from high school anyway. I haven't really kept track of anyone from high school. Well, actually, now that i think about it, I am pretty friendly with my most recent ex (from 7 years ago) and made his kid a hat. I also poke him for actually liking that Legend of the Seeker show based on that Terry Goodkind series I told him about.
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And good job. Actually, I probably know someone whose kid could use a hat, now that I'm thinking about it. Not a full-blown ex or anything. But we did it once. Oh yeah.
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