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[muerto_ama]

Right now my brain is processing so many thoughts; I am confused. I want the comfort of a man, the security, the tight grip of there arms around you, the sensation you get when you cuddle..I want that. But I want that with out having to give into the temptation. It isn't even classified as a temptation as much as a "have to." Why can't guys just

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[anonymous]

Actually some of us can just cuddle... but even while cuddling we do have a tendancy to get a hard-on but that doesn't always mean we want to have sex... well not for some of us... that is rare though I will admit... well I hope you get to feeling better... love ya Ash...

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[muerto_ama]

I don't know..I just feel lonely sometimes..don't you? I dont' even want sex (although that would be nice) I just want to be loved..

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[anonymous]

yes I agree Ash I feel lonely and sex isn't that big a deal... if it happened then great if not ok... but honestly I miss being able to go to sleep with someone in my arms and wake up right next to them... after being able to do that for two years it kills me now to lie alone everynight... I hate it... but hopefully that will change sometime soon

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[krisg0]

would be nice wouldn't it. lol. i know how ya feel.

[krisg0]

I like to Cuddle, hold that special someone close to your body and cradle them in your arms. watch the sun set, or a good movie. I can go on and on. lol.

[krisg0]

corney I know. I'm hopeless.

[muerto_ama]

you're not hopeless..I am

[chemicalx_7]

I think I know what you're going through. I've been feeling the same way lately. It would just be nice to have someone there for you...to be next to you..with no strings attached. It's kind of rough for me too b/c it's so hard for me to trust in a new relationship. I feel as though the guy is just out to use me.

[muerto_ama]

Oh my gosh Jen, I know excactly what you mean. Guys are so different from girls. There whole "taking a girl out" is the total opposite of what we think. Like tonight, I went out with this guy and at the end he wanted me to "come out to the car with him" to get my drink. I knew that he wanted to make out and I hate that... I just feel like guys rather go by the motto "if you want it, you want it" and girls are strictly "is he boyfriend material?" theroy. Basically all that jumble meant, I never know if a guy is hanging with me cause' he wants to see if he has got "game" or if he wants to establish some kind of relationship. I'm clueless...

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[chemicalx_7]

game...lol... sorry but I am holding my sides from laughing and it hurts my cracked rib isn't healed all the way yet... but anyway... game... shit I have no game... not even sure what game its supposed to be... hop scotch, go fish, maybe hide and seek... not sure... but I know I don't have it... and even if I did not sure I would play it... everytime I have ever made out or even had sex with a girl I hadn't before is because it just happened... I don't push for anything... hard to believe but I have been told that I need to make a move by girls before and I am just trying to be me and be nice and not jump right into it... but oh well such is life... well time to go play the game I know I got and am good at solitare!!! hehe... had to say that one.. talk to you later Ash...

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[muerto_ama]

LOL, yeah I thought it was quite hilarious also when a guy asked me if his friend had game or not with me... I said "game?" He said a guy either has it or he don't...