my birthday was on 3.2.1.0...and i feel like i AM at 0.

[munstar]

chris and i broke up yesterday

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[everpinkus]

hey, me and my long term boyfriend broke up last year on mutual terms... and it was really rough adjusting. So i can relate. I ended up hating him for awhile (he ended up going out with my best friend's other best friend), but now we're on civil terms again. ANYWAYS, i don't want to turn this into being about me. I just wanted to say if you ever want to talk to someone, i'm here for ya. I've changed drastically since 'the breakup'. It's scary but working on yourself is the best thing ever.

[becauseicare]

[munstar]

he texted me today saying, "this is so hard, i miss you so much..." and it broke my heart. i didnt even know what to say back. i worked a later shift, and thought about it all through work time. i texted him when i got off, but i just tried to stay strong. seeing the words on my phone made me want to throw it against a wall and cry. it seriously is so hard, but i need to work on me. i need to not have those feelings of outburst and anger.

i know we'll end up together again someday, i just need this time for myself or else im never gunna get through my problems.

im sorry i turned this into something all about me, but how are you keeping up?

[rustleofswing]

I kinda broke up with my ex like that, for some of the same reasons too. I still cared about him a lot, but I would get really mean to him sometimes and knew it wasn't healthy for either of us. I know how rough it can be. If you need to talk, you know where to find me!

[dearbrains]

it's really hard to say goodbye to someone you really care about, but it will be so much better when you are in a better place and have dealt with whatever issues you have. i promise!
i spent two years alone after a really hard breakup, and i learned alot about myself and learned to be with just myself. it was hard sometimes, but in all honesty, it was worth it.