to be frank...

[mysticactive]

I am increasingly seeing the way in which 'appropriate behavior' is used to abuse people and I am becoming fiercely compassionately but unapologetically 'inappropriate'. This is quite the awakening happening and I fear for my mother that she is next on the list. haha I am going to see her in about a week and a half and, all jokes aside, abuse will

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[twirlingtulip]

wow. Very intense stuff you're dealing with.

[mysticactive]

very much so, but I am willing to have a somewhet difficult reality over a pleasant dream these days.

Tyranny of conventional norms

[bobby1933]

I am with you all the way on this.

You have a right to call people (all people) out on their hurtful behavior. You must, however, be willing to face the consequences, which you seem willing to be.

Re: Tyranny of conventional norms

[mysticactive]

yes thank you for your support. I was sure you would understand what I was trying to communicate.

[khalid_hussain]

Good for you! What amazes me is when others continue to try to avoid accountability for their behavior, even after having been caught at their game.

Peace,

r

[mysticactive]

haha yes. and they are capable of being soo sooo sly about it and so key to try to box us in to make us feel we can't react. I find it really sick, ın a way. I know you have really tread this path on this issue before. thank you for sharing about that here. its helped me.

"appropriate" RIGHT.

[heartsongwoman]

I'm often faced with how each culture has their own version of what exactly is "appropriate". It's really what we've learned is ok for us to do and be. I enjoy people who break these molds and find it amusing, even when it is awkward. I'm certain that these uncomfortable times bring loads of healing. I'm happy to hear you are taking a stance and see yourself breaking bonds of abuse to create new patterns... we can only change ourselves and in making these changes it Calls to the Universe around us to change as well.

Re: "appropriate" RIGHT.

[mysticactive]

amen sister!