Long overdue, Sigh.

[mz_laveau]

I've been in Florida with my father the past 3 weeks. He has developed inoperable stage 3 cancer in his lungs. One of his vocal cords is paralyzed, so he can only whisper. I will try and condense the situation. After tests and long talks with the oncologist, we are not going to treat it. The treatments are harsh and will make him sick, and they

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[crystalgee]

*hugs* I am sorry I haven't called you but I didn't know when it would be convenient. That and life has been busy due to Chad's work schedule change (but its back to normal) and some gigs. Call me when you need to talk. Btw did you need a new disposal on account of your art project? *smirks*

[crystalgee]

Btw checked out that link..interesting!!

[el_jefe59]

I am so sorry to hear this.

[paladin_shadow]

Its never easy losing a parent Janie, I know, but I really feel for you since its such a drawn out process. But I also know you're made of mighty strong stuff, inside that sweet exterior is a core of steel and they say the hotter the fire, the stronger the steel. My condolences go out to you, darlin, and if theres anything I can, dont hesitate to ask...

[mz_laveau]

Thanks Mike. I'm back in PA now, and slightly calmer. I have things in place for him for the time being, and hospice set up for when he needs it. I do find that the more hellish experiences make other hellish experiences easier to deal with later on. Thanks for the support. Seriously, thanks:)