I dunno I feel really strongly about having good communication in a relationship. I was really down and out after the whole percy ordeal, didn't get into a real relationship until freshman year of college. But all it made me learn was that the past was the past, the person in my future couldn't be held accountable for what had happened. I also learned not to make the same mistakes and get walked all over and that communicating is really important. The person i'm with now is simply amazing, we don't argue, we get along really well, and I don't go around thinking he's out to get me and make my life horrible but the opposite instead.
I'm just glad you still take a peek here once in a while, man :)
What I got from my previous relationship was communication and space. That's something I think is essential, no matter who I'm dating.It's saved me the trouble of asking to talk and risking an argument, thought there were, of course, arguments. But I agree, it must be at the right time. Because we spoke often, we knew what to expect in an argument and when to back off. The hints were more noticeable then.
I'm glad someone else said "don't compare" besides me. Everyone said I was idealistic for thinking like that....
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What I got from my previous relationship was communication and space. That's something I think is essential, no matter who I'm dating.It's saved me the trouble of asking to talk and risking an argument, thought there were, of course, arguments. But I agree, it must be at the right time. Because we spoke often, we knew what to expect in an argument and when to back off. The hints were more noticeable then.
I'm glad someone else said "don't compare" besides me. Everyone said I was idealistic for thinking like that....
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