Sooooooooooo

[nassir]

Since I met and fell in love with wolf_sounds, there have been quite a few things that just "didn't fit". She's always insisted that I never come to Cheyenne to see her, always tried to talk me out of coming to her band's concerts. Just in general the feeling that something was being hidden and that not everything was being said

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[invertedsky]

It's one thing to have an open marriage/relationship, but it's a whole different matter to be honest and open.

I'm sorry you were betrayed like that.

[nassir]

It's one thing to have an open marriage/relationship, but it's a whole different matter to be honest and open.

Exactly!

And thanks man, I'm dealing as best I can.

[eeeniebean]

First.. Phil. I'm so sorry - lies are so hurtful and I'm sorry you've been subject to them. :(

Secondly:
but it's a whole different matter to be honest and open.
Yes.

I love when people ask questions like, "Would you consider it cheating if your partner kissed someone open mouth? if they talked dirty with them on the phone? if they slept next to them? if x, if y?"

I always thought that this very formulation of the question focused things in exactly the wrong direction. To me, "cheating" is not about physical action or consummation, it's about the mental treatment of that physical action.

Are you doing something that you would not be able to openly disclose to your partner? Are you avoiding confrontation on the topic of that action in any method? Are you trying to misdirect them into thinking about something else? Are you affirmatively deceiving? If any of these apply: there's a problem.

[nassir]

Thanks kid.

And yeah, I you're right on the money.

[myras_girls]

Wow, that's really harsh. I'm so sorry to hear this. I truly think you're a good guy and you deserve to be loved, trusted and respected.

[nassir]

Thanks, much appreciated.

[korvac]

I'm speechless.

[ishaunted]

I think I'll try to post a real comment after I manage to pick my jaw up off the floor. What. The.

FUCK?????

[cherrydevoure]

I'm with Keli on this one...?WHAT THE FUCK!@!!!!
I can't believe so many people are being so casual about this...
i can't believe how casual YOU SOUND!!!
i am absolutely pissed off for you!
you are such an amazing guy who does not need that type of shit!
You've been dating this gal how long???
OOOO IF I WAS THERE!@!!!!
WORDS....I would have WORDS!!!!!
I know me being so far is very hard...but if you need to talk call me...
Here is my email address...so we can exchange phone #S!
Sorry sugar

peaches_la_rue@hotmail.com

[nassir]

Oh, I'm far from casual. I just manage to write that way ;)