A Master's Statement
~This is a rough draft I wrote back in August and just typed up last night.
~The most important fact about me as a Master is that I regard D/s & BDSM as Spiritual Disciplines. The relationship between Master and slave should be a Sacred Bond. However, too often, it is not.
Any fool with a dog collar and a whip can 'bind, beat & bang', but that is really all about the so-called 'master'. In that scenario, the 'slave' is nothing more than a meat sack blow up doll. These types of 'masters' are actually afraid of women and relationship and choose the life style as a way to act out upon that fear, where is usually turns into hate and contempt. [This is not limited to the above gender paradigm either]
I understand that and, if I was not wired the way I am, I could have very easily gone down the same path. If you seek submission to my Collar, I will explain how that happened, but doing so here is not appropriate. Suffice it to say that I love women and receive their submission as a Gift.
I Collar men, as well, but I treat them like the dogs that they are and keep them naked and butt plugged under my roof. When they are not being punished or used as Training Tools, I'll have them cleaning the toilet or the cat box. [I say that half in jest yet wholly in earnest as I know most men need a stronger hand from a male Master]
So, what kind of female slaves am I seeking? Women who are strong or who wish to become strong and I mean strong on a physical, emotional, intellectual, and/or Spiritual level. Age and aesthetics are secondary. A 'plain' woman who is Vital is more attractive than a beautiful woman who is dull. [see 'meat sack blow up doll' above]
You should be open to the idea of bisexuality. I am polyamorous and my slaves are to be Sisters to one another. I already have a Slave Companion who lives with me and who I am Training as a Domme, something I seek in all my slaves, though it is not required. If you wish to remain upon your knees, I am fine with that.
Women who are professional and career driven are especially desired. I am well aware that it is still A Man's World out here and that you have to be twice as good to get half as far. Inside what I call The Sacred Circle of The Collar you can surrender, stop fighting, submit. There is great renewal in SubSpace and I find it pleasurable to watch my slaves get stronger. It nourishes my ego.
And finally, I want women who are brave, who will let me take them deep into SubSpace, sometimes for days at a time, take them to the places where their darkest desires and greatest fears reside. As I said above, I regard D/s & BDSM as Spiritual Disciplines. There is great power in fear and that power can be Transformative. As a Master, I want my slaves to become powerful, as powerful as they can be, because that makes your submission greater and all the more pleasurable.
For those of you still reading, those who have not tuned out or fled, I have one iron clad, non-negotiable relationship requirement; while long term and committed is my preference, even if you can only do 'hit & run', when you put on my Collar, you are my property and will do what the fuck I tell you to do without question!
No worries about that, however; I will take my time getting to know you first. To be blunt, as a Master, if I can't get into your head, what's the point of getting into your pants?
See also The Collar as Spiritual Tool and Method of Female Empowerment
~The most important fact about me as a Master is that I regard D/s & BDSM as Spiritual Disciplines. The relationship between Master and slave should be a Sacred Bond. However, too often, it is not.
Any fool with a dog collar and a whip can 'bind, beat & bang', but that is really all about the so-called 'master'. In that scenario, the 'slave' is nothing more than a meat sack blow up doll. These types of 'masters' are actually afraid of women and relationship and choose the life style as a way to act out upon that fear, where is usually turns into hate and contempt. [This is not limited to the above gender paradigm either]
I understand that and, if I was not wired the way I am, I could have very easily gone down the same path. If you seek submission to my Collar, I will explain how that happened, but doing so here is not appropriate. Suffice it to say that I love women and receive their submission as a Gift.
I Collar men, as well, but I treat them like the dogs that they are and keep them naked and butt plugged under my roof. When they are not being punished or used as Training Tools, I'll have them cleaning the toilet or the cat box. [I say that half in jest yet wholly in earnest as I know most men need a stronger hand from a male Master]
So, what kind of female slaves am I seeking? Women who are strong or who wish to become strong and I mean strong on a physical, emotional, intellectual, and/or Spiritual level. Age and aesthetics are secondary. A 'plain' woman who is Vital is more attractive than a beautiful woman who is dull. [see 'meat sack blow up doll' above]
You should be open to the idea of bisexuality. I am polyamorous and my slaves are to be Sisters to one another. I already have a Slave Companion who lives with me and who I am Training as a Domme, something I seek in all my slaves, though it is not required. If you wish to remain upon your knees, I am fine with that.
Women who are professional and career driven are especially desired. I am well aware that it is still A Man's World out here and that you have to be twice as good to get half as far. Inside what I call The Sacred Circle of The Collar you can surrender, stop fighting, submit. There is great renewal in SubSpace and I find it pleasurable to watch my slaves get stronger. It nourishes my ego.
And finally, I want women who are brave, who will let me take them deep into SubSpace, sometimes for days at a time, take them to the places where their darkest desires and greatest fears reside. As I said above, I regard D/s & BDSM as Spiritual Disciplines. There is great power in fear and that power can be Transformative. As a Master, I want my slaves to become powerful, as powerful as they can be, because that makes your submission greater and all the more pleasurable.
For those of you still reading, those who have not tuned out or fled, I have one iron clad, non-negotiable relationship requirement; while long term and committed is my preference, even if you can only do 'hit & run', when you put on my Collar, you are my property and will do what the fuck I tell you to do without question!
No worries about that, however; I will take my time getting to know you first. To be blunt, as a Master, if I can't get into your head, what's the point of getting into your pants?
See also The Collar as Spiritual Tool and Method of Female Empowerment