Comments | neko038: I'm done

neko038

I'm done

Mar 30, 2011 06:55

I am really in need of me time, and not just get some sleep or try to shower me time, but time alone with my thoughts and maybe escaping in a book time, but I have lost that for the past 8 1/2 months and I don't know how to get it back. It is my fault too, I took on too much so that Alex would not resent having a baby, not like that is working ( Read more... )

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d_day March 30 2011, 15:36:22 UTC

Sweetie :(
If you'd like, maybe we can work something out and I could take Josh for a few hours. If I find a gap in my scheudle that works, I'd even take him over night.

I was just commenting the other day that as much as I love to see Josh's adorable little face, I hope you're not bringing him down to philly so you can get some down time and enjoy the wedding. BUt from your post, I'm doubting that's the case.

HUGS!

asavitzk March 30 2011, 15:46:01 UTC

I only have two things. First, I'm sorry you feel so run down and stressed. Second, regardless of what you and Alex think, he *can* handle Josh alone - you just have to trust that things will be fine and ease into it. It's a scary prospect - I know - but by not giving him a chance you're not doing either one of you any favors.

d_day March 30 2011, 16:58:59 UTC

Good point! I totally missed that!

erinann March 31 2011, 00:15:41 UTC

I've offered 6 times, but you never say anything. I don't know what else to do.

neko038 March 31 2011, 10:07:28 UTC

I know I suck and need to take you up on your offer soon, you rock though, hugs.
Crys

truered April 2 2011, 15:14:59 UTC

Ditto to the comments that Alex can handle Josh alone. He's an intelligent adult, and there are people he can call for advice if he needs it. They'll be fine. Take care of yourself too. I imagine Alex would far prefer to have a happy wife and deal with a baby on his own for a couple days than to see you miserable.

spookyevilone April 3 2011, 17:52:04 UTC

If you're unhappy imposing on friends, can you hire a sitter for a few hours and go somewhere, like just a coffee shop or something, to read and decompress? Why on earth do you feel bad about trying to schedule some "you" time? >:( Bad Crys, no cookie. I wish I lived closer. I'd kidnap your baby every Saturday morning.