Do I Live Too Deep In My Comfort Zone?

[neo_rufus]

I attended a smash buddy's wedding a few days ago. He's 21 years old and he's been together with this girl since high school. He's the same age as me and ever since then I can't seem to quit questioning myself. I'm an extremely funny, passive, polite individual with many friends. Despite the large amount of friends I have, never have I ever been in

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[neo_rufus]

I'm fine, thanks. Yeah it has been way too long, I know. Perhaps I found my drive to write a lot again. We'll see, but I think I'm back. I've just been working, hanging out with friends, and doing college work. Nothing too out of the ordinary.

How about you?

[neo_rufus]

Oh no, that sucks dude. I hope the swelling goes down soon dude.

Oh I'm studying Marine biology. XD

[cassidy_]

I had to rub my eyes a few times to make sure it was actually you posting!
I don't know about most girls, but my boyfriend is pretty sweet and nice... I went for "bad boys" at first, then realized they were all assholes and came to my senses.

[neo_rufus]

LOL!

Yeah its me! Hopefully I can keep myself here like in the old days. XD

I'm glad you found somebody, Cassidy. Do hold onto him tight. You're very lucky and so is he. ^^

[neo_rufus]

Yeah tell me about it, Diana. The whole pounding music and no room to move makes me feel all lightheaded. lol Not to mention I always imagine fights breaking out, which I'm sure doesn't happen all the time, I suppose. Nonetheless, I don't think I'd enjoy myself. Thanks for the words of wisdom. Your comments always snapped me back to my senses. ^^;

[nosignalinput]

Nice to see you post again Miguel :-)

Anyway, you're the same age as me Miguel, 21, and I suppose I'm in the same position as you. Yes, I do those things you don't (except smoke), but that doesn't really matter. We're still incredibly young, so you're time is not running out as you've barely started your life yet!

Clubbing isn't all it's cracked up to be anyway. Sure, you might meet a girl and have a meaningless one night stand but you'll probably never find someone who's girlfriend material that way. I go out to have fun with my friends, not to get an STD. What I'm saying is don't change yourself just because you feel like things might not be working out for you. You have friends who are girls, right? So who knows, you may end up with one of them in the future. Just keep being you!

Don't worry about girls too much, just keep doing what you enjoy in life. At least your free and single right now and not tied down in a relationship. Enjoy it while it lasts buddy!

[neo_rufus]

Thanks, friend. I'll do my absolute best to keep it up. I think now, more then ever, I actually have things to talk about now. Haha.

You know what's funny? Deep down, I know full well that I am still very young and have plenty of time. I guess the idea of a close friend of mine getting married out of nowhere just shook me up for a little bit. But at the same time, I couldn't see myself getting married so soon. I still have so much character development to do. =P

Speaking of my female friends, I actually had lunch with one last weekend. She called me around 10:30 am (woke me up too lol) and asked me out for some pizza. She's really nice but she is going to University in September, so yeah, that sucks for me I suppose. But nonetheless, I hear love is unpredictable, so I'll expect the unexpected.

Good point/summary on that line. You always hit the nail on the head with those. ;)

Thanks dude!

[princealia]

If you step out of your comfort zone, you probably will find someone, but it won't be someone you're particularly looking for because you weren't particularly being yourself to begin with. I think you want to find someone who is going to like you for you, not you for someone who is trying to be something else. It's not fair for you or that person.

I see absolutely nothing wrong with the way you are. Hell, you sound like a dream most girls would love to have lol, but I think if you put yourself out there that you're looking, then maybe you'll find someone :D

[neo_rufus]

Hmm...I see. Yeah I suppose if I did do that, I'd be a "poser" which is something I can't. lol I'll just have to be more patient. ^^

Oh and thanks for that compliment, it means a lot. Yeah I'll expect the unexpected and continue to be me. :-)

Thanks again. XD