how?

[jeffys_gurl27]

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[obsesscompulse]

i am so sorry this has happened, and i wish i had ways to make the hurt go away. here is a list of things to do instead of self-injure that can help with the emotional pain

[jeffys_gurl27]

Throwing ice cubes at the bathtub made me giggle. I'm going to keep this list handy, maybe even print it out and put keep it in my pocket or something. Thank you for your support and the time to post this for me. It goes well appreciated.

[obsesscompulse]

*smile* i'm glad to hear i could help in some way. i know i'm a stranger, but sometimes strangers are the easiest to talk to (that's something i'm discovering), so i'm here if ever you want to chat. take care of your self!

[kharma_creature]

the best way i know how to cope is to let it hurt... it will take time - everyone differs... when you're ready, try to read books about loss - they can help you understand it a little better...and help you cope.

i don't know what your religion is... but a book that really helped me was - the pagan book of living and dying by starhawk.

feel free to come back and post as often as you need/want to... if you want to chat and i'm online - my aim is: kharma creature.

*love to you darling dear*

[jeffys_gurl27]

Thank you so much for all of your help, you truly are a sweet person and I'm glad I have people to turn to that want to help. The problem with me is that I'm always looking for the quickest and less painful way out. But I suppose you're right. Thank you for your advice. <3

[kharma_creature]

you're welcome dear...

i honestly don't think that there is a human out there that trys to prolong their pain... i think everyone wants quick and easy solutions.. so you're not alone there. talk with you soon. <3 kharma

[jeffys_gurl27]

yeah i know...but that doesn't stop the hurt