I see my grandfather all the time..i have very vivid dreams about him, and how I didn't get to see him before he passed away..it tears me up all the time..but I know he understands why I couldn't be there
we should talk about stuff like this when i'm there
right after my dad died i dreamed about him a lot, now it is just randomly. my dad and i didn't have a great relationship until a few months before he died. the last time i saw him (a week before he died of a massive heart attack at 40) i cried and i felt like i was never going to see him again (he lived across the state)...i miss him. sometimes i wonder if i idealize him in my head now that he's gone.
it's been 3 years since he died and i still have times where i try to call him...i think it's awesome that you have dreams with your mom in them frequently. :)
Thanks man. It's nice to hear from people who have gone through it. I lost my mom less than 3 months ago, so things like this still effect me in a serious way. Just tonite at dinner someone walked through the door who looked like her and I teared up.
People say that time heals all wounds, but I don't think that's true. I think time makes you more able to deal with it. I still have good days and bad days.
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it's been 3 years since he died and i still have times where i try to call him...i think it's awesome that you have dreams with your mom in them frequently. :)
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