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Feb 05, 2007 19:06

I have one of those minds that wants to 'fix' everything. I realised that yesterday ( Read more... )

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bradza February 5 2007, 13:24:25 UTC
I have noticed this about you. And it is awesome. I think for a long time, I was the same, and used to speak on other people's behalf without letting them say it for themselves. And I realised how, despite the good intentions, it can be smothery. I also realised (and this was very hard to do) that if something is going on with other people, a problem of sorts, and they are capable of sorting it out themselves, there is more benefit for them, more for them to learn in the long run if I leave them to sort it out, despite my wanting to get involved.

"Why the dark before the dawn?" I'm not saying don't be what you are - I think it's fantastic! I'm just sharing some insight I've discovered once, that was applicable to me and maybe not you, that sometimes I shouldn't ruin the dark, because without - the dawn cannot be the most glorious sunrise.

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c_j_i February 6 2007, 08:39:05 UTC
Wise words Brad. And Sprout thanks for making my 2nd BDO absolutely fab

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