What is forever? I cringed when I hear 'I love you forever'. How many times have we heard someone said that, but the moment you had an argument, suddenly love isn't so forever anymore. Truth is, there is no such thing as a forever...it's a false concept grasped as the ultimate truth and a reflection of our innate need to hold on to a fixed point ( Read more... )

So there I was, on a fine Sunday morning, just standing by my apartment balcony and enjoying the day when I caught a pair of hands amidst a flurry of yellow - rubbing, shuffling, vigorously and then I saw him........a dark but lean immigrant worker standing in full view from me in the adjacent balcony, with jeans at the knees, wantonly masturbating ( Read more... )

Strange how fate or karma works....just today, I have heard and read about the lives of 2 people who used to matter to me .....2 people who made me weep inside at 2 different turning points in my life. Pieces of me ( Read more... )

* Young Cikus (18-24) Basic characteristics : May have traces of brat mentality, often shallow, self absorbed, craves for praises and compliments,lacks maturity, high maintenance, can be emotionally imbalanced and drama prone, often needy, attention seeker, can be manipulative, lacks wisdom and even lesser concern for anyone else but themselves ( Read more... )

What constitute cheating on a partner, apart from the obvious physical betrayal? Someone was sharing his past with me and we were talking about the all too familiar physical aspect of hoodwinking your partner...but what about the more subtle emotional betrayal? Does that constitute cheating too ( Read more... )

This entry is borrowed material from someone from the past, also a Mr Lim...You'll have to understand Hokkien to appreciate this one ( Read more... )

Bubble tea, pearls, misty, dreamy fields of yellow flowers, blue skies, fluffy white clouds, tragic songs, streaky rain drops beating against the window, more tragic songs, Takeshi Kaneshiro with wings, lavender dreams. Cute, tall, good looking men with broad backs and lean muscles....Ah Lians stuffing themselves with Thai take aways. And who says ( Read more... )

It was a night out with the gals...well, in this case, only one...one of my closest friend from school. She is of course in the know of what has transpired in my life and the one person I will call and rely on in an emergency. In this case, an emotional crisis. And so, after the verbal regurgitation and with a heavy burden in my heart from the ( Read more... )

...like a drunkard, passionate moth fluttering towards the flicker of death.......The irony of love, how it is able to intoxicate and destroy. To love is to risk being hurt...cliche` and repeated till the cats, cows and sheep come home perhaps, but like the moth, we are irresistibly drawn to the flame, nevertheless. Sometimes, not to one flame but ( Read more... )

"Hey, I could be your surrogate mum....if you want, for a fee, of course, I need the $$$ to continue my studies...and no penetration, it would have to be through artificial insemination". "Are you serious?", I asked, "You mean you would rather prefer a syringe to the human touch, I enthused, half amused and intrigued. "Yeah, it's you what...we have ( Read more... )