well, it's been a year of huge changes for me, some good, some bad, all led me to where i am now, feeling happy, safe, and cared for.

Things i have learnt this year

* i can be a very jealous and possessive person

* people can be two faced, weak and unreliable

* i do not deserve to be treated as i was

* i deserve to be supported, helped, encouraged ( Read more... )

Well, i think i'm almost ready for christmas, just a few more presents to wrap and a couple more things to get ready for cooking, and i'm so excited!  Not sure Sir knows quite what to make of me bouncing around going "it's christmas ( Read more... )

I've been baking today, and as the cake is in the oven cooking, thought i'd do this to pass some time....

1. Ever been given an engagement ring?
yup

2. Longest friendship?
hmmm...... probably Amy that i was at school with, we still catch up occasionally..... so that's about 18 years

3. Last gift you received?
eeeek, my memory is crap, i can't remember!! ( Read more... )

Stolen from
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I used to be fairly unconfident in how i looked.  We're surrounded by these stereotypes of what's "sexy" and i felt that i had to try to conform to those stereotypes to be considered sexy.  But recently i've realised that outright sexiness doesn't work on me, i dont feel comfortable being sexy and i think it shows as my confidence is low if i'm in ( Read more... )

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 yup, i've finally had it cut!!!  And i'm so glad, sexy as it can be, hair down to my bum was just too much work for me to handle!!!  So it's now shoulder length and straight ( Read more... )

woooohoooo...... so excited... the hitachi magic wand Sir ordered has just arrived, with all sorts of attatchements, including one for attaching one thing either side..... had a little test of it and "WOW"...... but can't wait to try it out properly :D

Just a quick test to see if i've got this worked out.  If this works, i should be able to say thank you to
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ok, i know that there is a way of putting peoples lj name so it links to their profile, and also a way of uploading pics into the journal, but i cant' find the info on how to do it.

Could someone please help me out and explain (preferably in little words that i can understand ;o) ) how to do it??

thank you!!