I am so sorry to hear about your brother- how very sad (and what an under statement). I can really not imagine you pain. I hope that you and your family are able to support one another through this.
Keep in mind there is a world of difference between being a victim and being sad. you are allowed to be both but in this case the sadness clearly permeates.
I have little to offer you with regard to your relationship save this: do what you can for another until it is being done at the expense of your well being. Relationships survive many many things but if you cannot come out whole on the other side of this hard time. You can only give in a relationship that which you have to give- no more.
sorry you are struggling. If you need help looking for a person to talk to to work through some of this stuff for you- let me know.
we're all doing fine... and I have my therapist on speed dial lol. some days are just shitty and it really helps me to be more objective when I type/write out my thoughts on the screen/paper... it kinda helps me to digest "what is" a little better.
like I said... i'll be fine... i'm just rolling with it.
thanks again for the voucher... he actually got in touch with them this week.
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Keep in mind there is a world of difference between being a victim and being sad. you are allowed to be both but in this case the sadness clearly permeates.
I have little to offer you with regard to your relationship save this: do what you can for another until it is being done at the expense of your well being. Relationships survive many many things but if you cannot come out whole on the other side of this hard time. You can only give in a relationship that which you have to give- no more.
sorry you are struggling.
If you need help looking for a person to talk to to work through some of this stuff for you- let me know.
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we're all doing fine... and I have my therapist on speed dial lol. some days are just shitty and it really helps me to be more objective when I type/write out my thoughts on the screen/paper... it kinda helps me to digest "what is" a little better.
like I said... i'll be fine... i'm just rolling with it.
thanks again for the voucher... he actually got in touch with them this week.
one day at a time.
I hope that you and your family are doing well :)
happy cupid's day :)
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