I'm just so sad & stressed for him. Yes, we all read fan fic and squeal over him, but in the end who he does or doesn't have sex with and who he does or doesn't share this information with is HIS CHOICE.
I know...I have not read all the commentary on the comms, but it rubs me the wrong way too. THE MAN HAS STATED THAT HE DOES NOT WANT TO BE A CIVIL RIGHTS FIGURE NOW. Leave him be....I don't have to go around telling everyone that I'm hetero, so why should he have to open up? It bothers me to no end, the labels and classifications that we saddle each other with.
Exactly. And didn't anyone's mom tell them "if you can't say something nice, STFU"? Mine did. Probably in those exact words. Shrinking southern belle my mother is NOT!
JFC let the man focus on music and enjoy where he's at for a minute. He's earned it.
Thank you SO MUCH for venting with me! The comms get scary.
I agree completely, love... everyone needs to back off and just let him make his music and be himself instead of thinking they have some claim on who he is and what he does... thanx for expressing this, i totally agree :) *hugs*
I am happy that you've decided to use your journal. I will have to get mine up and running. My daily life doesn't mesh with most people here, as Kradam is the only thing we have in common.
This gives us a chance to get to know each other alittle better. I don't feel comfortable with putting much real info into the comms. I used to be an admin on a volatile board and it got bizarre...(maybe I SHOULD make entries in my journal...snerk)
I haven't kept a journal since forever. But the comms tend to get crazy over this stuff lately. So I'll just go over there go keep up like a good stalker fan, but will mostly keep my real opinions here.
Maybe I can get someone to make and show me how to use a decent header, too. Then I can have some pretty boy Adam to keep you company when you come to visit!
WHO introduces themselves like this? NO ONE. So why, for the love of all that is good, do people keep trying to make Adam share every little bit of his mind and soul and life with them?? We are NOT defined by our choice of bedmate. THE END. Leave the man alone! They can't label him and shame him with his sexuality, so they try to bring him down by throwing their own Titanic issues and crap on him. Our poor boy. It makes me so mad... and embarrassed. And then mad again some more. And then I just wanna give the guy a big ol' hug and pet him and set those mean, bad people on fire. You are not allowed to spaz and flail and scream over your Rights To Privacy, when all you freaking DO is stick your [insert anything you'd like here] into every moment Adam's ever had while being in existence.
I just have to go, because you said it very perfectly up there and I'm two minutes from throwing an actual tantrum.
Hello! ILU more. I'm Kim! I'm straight too! (Except for if I found, say, Heidi Klum or Shakira in my bed. Then all bets are off.) Really. What does Adam's sexual preference have to do with the fact that the boy can SANG like no one that came before?
I didn't express it perfectly. I left off what you added - "Set those mean, bad people on fire." This sounds like a plan. I will provide the matches even.
And while you hold & pet him, I'll feed him cookies. And ice cream. 'Cause I don't want him going all skinny on us while people criticize his physique and bitch about his skin. *insert eye roll*
And it's ok. I threw the tantrum first and then posted. Now I might just need another one.
On another note, did you stop writing Kradam or did my notifications disappear?
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So I love you, too!
I'm just so sad & stressed for him. Yes, we all read fan fic and squeal over him, but in the end who he does or doesn't have sex with and who he does or doesn't share this information with is HIS CHOICE.
Grrrr.
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JFC let the man focus on music and enjoy where he's at for a minute. He's earned it.
Thank you SO MUCH for venting with me! The comms get scary.
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Thank you for your thoughts. Now I'm going to comment on your story!
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This gives us a chance to get to know each other alittle better. I don't feel comfortable with putting much real info into the comms. I used to be an admin on a volatile board and it got bizarre...(maybe I SHOULD make entries in my journal...snerk)
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Maybe I can get someone to make and show me how to use a decent header, too. Then I can have some pretty boy Adam to keep you company when you come to visit!
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WHO introduces themselves like this? NO ONE. So why, for the love of all that is good, do people keep trying to make Adam share every little bit of his mind and soul and life with them?? We are NOT defined by our choice of bedmate. THE END. Leave the man alone! They can't label him and shame him with his sexuality, so they try to bring him down by throwing their own Titanic issues and crap on him. Our poor boy. It makes me so mad... and embarrassed. And then mad again some more. And then I just wanna give the guy a big ol' hug and pet him and set those mean, bad people on fire. You are not allowed to spaz and flail and scream over your Rights To Privacy, when all you freaking DO is stick your [insert anything you'd like here] into every moment Adam's ever had while being in existence.
I just have to go, because you said it very perfectly up there and I'm two minutes from throwing an actual tantrum.
Also, ILU.
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I didn't express it perfectly. I left off what you added - "Set those mean, bad people on fire." This sounds like a plan. I will provide the matches even.
And while you hold & pet him, I'll feed him cookies. And ice cream. 'Cause I don't want him going all skinny on us while people criticize his physique and bitch about his skin. *insert eye roll*
And it's ok. I threw the tantrum first and then posted. Now I might just need another one.
On another note, did you stop writing Kradam or did my notifications disappear?
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