if someone treats you like you don't exist, and they're not contributing anything positive to your life, then you need to cut them loose, lizzie. really. you're allowed to be selfish and make things better for yourself sometimes. don't spend a lot of time and energy caring for someone who's fading from your life, and doesn't even notice it in the first place.
i went through this phase a few years ago where i matured really rapidly, and actually was aware that it was happening. i was aware of more things... like the way other people think, and the way i react to things everything felt different. sometimes it sucked, sometimes it was rewarding so maybe the same thing is happening for you right now
with the pretending to care thing don't do that. it's not wise. really, you have to be honest with yourself.
anyway i care about you. and i love you. and you're a strong person. even if you maybe think you aren't so, everything will be okay lizzie, don't worry
ANDDDDD I don't usually pretend to care about people that I talk to frequently. (Except for Nicole, and I'm trying really hard to just stop.) Just people that I know I won't be talking to very often. Or even ever again. "Aquantences" I guess. I'm pretty sure I spelled that wrong. BUT YEAH. I only do that to people who are basically strangers, because I know when people I don't know very well pretend to care about me, even though I know they're pretending, it helps. I do care a little bit, just not very much.
AND P.S. I READ YOUR CARDS AND STUFF LAST NIGHT BECAUSE I WAS IN A BAD MOOD AND THEY MADE ME SMILE BIG ♥
Aww, Lizzie. I care about you, and I'm not pretending. I know how that feels. It's happend to me before and it hurts. But she came back around in the end, and if your friend doesn't come around and realize that you're probably gonna be the best friend she's ever had, and that she's being stupid for what shes doing right now, then she isn't worth it. And I know it's hard to let go of something you cared for for so long, but I guess sometimes you have to, even if that sounded a little harsh. And I don't blame you for still thinking about her. I'd do the same, I have a hard time letting go. Just hopefully she thinks for a while (assuming she hasn't lately), and everything is back to normal for you and her
& you don't want to be an insect, nonono. Someone would squish you, and that wouldn't be too good. You would make a good dog now that I think about it. You'd be the fun peppy kind. A lizzie dog! ♥
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i went through this phase a few years ago where i matured really rapidly, and actually was aware that it was happening.
i was aware of more things...
like the way other people think, and the way i react to things
everything felt different. sometimes it sucked, sometimes it was rewarding
so maybe the same thing is happening for you right now
with the pretending to care thing
don't do that. it's not wise. really, you have to be honest with yourself.
anyway
i care about you. and i love you.
and you're a strong person. even if you maybe think you aren't
so, everything will be okay lizzie, don't worry
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And that is pretty much what's happening right now.
I know. I'm trying.
I care about you, and I love you too.
And thank you Vicki. That was comforting. Really. :) ♥
I know. <3
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I don't usually pretend to care about people that I talk to frequently. (Except for Nicole, and I'm trying really hard to just stop.)
Just people that I know I won't be talking to very often. Or even ever again. "Aquantences" I guess. I'm pretty sure I spelled that wrong. BUT YEAH. I only do that to people who are basically strangers, because I know when people I don't know very well pretend to care about me, even though I know they're pretending, it helps. I do care a little bit, just not very much.
AND P.S.
I READ YOUR CARDS AND STUFF LAST NIGHT
BECAUSE I WAS IN A BAD MOOD
AND THEY MADE ME SMILE BIG ♥
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&aawh!! yay@making you smile big again! ♥
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I know how that feels. It's happend to me before and it hurts.
But she came back around in the end, and if your friend doesn't come around and realize that you're probably gonna be the best friend she's ever had, and that she's being stupid for what shes doing right now, then she isn't worth it.
And I know it's hard to let go of something you cared for for so long, but I guess sometimes you have to, even if that sounded a little harsh.
And I don't blame you for still thinking about her.
I'd do the same, I have a hard time letting go.
Just hopefully she thinks for a while (assuming she hasn't lately), and everything is back to normal for you and her
& you don't want to be an insect, nonono. Someone would squish you, and that wouldn't be too good.
You would make a good dog now that I think about it. You'd be the fun peppy kind. A lizzie dog! ♥
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You're right.
And yeah, that's why I decided not to be an insect.
hahahahaha
I WANT TO BE A DOG NOW
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please don't be a jerk :(
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i know i get upset over stupid things sometimes.
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